Vent and i really need some support right now!!!! ;(

[FirstTymeMommii]

Dear Pregnant Ladies,
     My ex and I just got into an argument that I really am not stressing over because he is gone now. BUT I am still hurting over our separation because I genuinely and unconditionally loved him. Being I am 33+2 with both our first child. So I am crying upset of course but I am being strong and not running back to him. But the real vent is... I'm 21yrs old and I moved back in with my grandmother who is pissed with the way he did me, messed around on me, which is quite normal and understanding but she all of a sudden starts fussing and cussing me out because I am grieving the break up!!!!!!!! I thought it was normal to cry after a break up! She is yelling at me because it's been a week now and I'm still crying. I mean we pretty much had a future together and now its gone... and she just expect me to cry one day and get over it.. truth is I haven't even cried because she is really insensitive when it comes to relationships. I know she is going to pretty much tell me to get over it and fuss at me if I don't. We basically went back and forth until I just decided to shut up but in the end being the only family support I have.. she just told me after the L&D visit she is done helping me and I will have to look out for myself and my child. Not that it's a problem but why is she going off on me only because I am grieving a break up. :( vent over... advice anyone! Thanks for the ears ladies!

[babygoesgaga]

..... :c look at.ur.self in the mirror tell ur.self.u have to be strong.for.this little.life that.is growing inside.you.
It's.hard.right.now.bt.u need.to be.strong.. sry for my language.bt! **** that.guy! I want.u to show his the.strong.u,u shouldn't.be.crying :/ u should.be.full.of.joy.because.ur.goin to be.a mom.ur grandma might.be.mad.because she's pissed at.the fact.that.a " man can do that" nt keep ur.head up look.forward...( again sry.for.the.language ) and.**** the future.u could.of.had.with him.I'm.so sure.there a man out.there that.is willing.to love.u and.ur.baby.....
:( so plz.try.for.u and.the baby.ur still young and.trust me ull.find.someone.if its.nt ur ex.... Cheer up a lil.... Talk to ur.tummy and.tell the baby u can be the mommy and daddy that's.all the.baby needs..and.that's u! :J

[mommyofaria]

First off I want to say congratulations!!!! You didn't deserve that And I'm glad you made the best choice....I know what your going through and It's hard for me to cry in front of people because they are the same way...she's set in her ways hun and she's not going to change :/...I don't think she means everything she says...maybe is hurting for You or upset because you put up with his crap and isn't showing it in the right way....try.talking to her...and if that doesn't work then find a better situation for You and your Baby....I know EVERYTHING that your going through girl I really do...I wish you nothing but the best and It's ok to cry...even if you have To do it in the shower or before you go to bed or when your alone.