cannot orgasm!!!!

[kayelanne]

I am extremely horny now that im pregnant and want sex all the time. I want to so bad and my fiance is very attractive and turns me on but no matterr what position we try and even trying self stimulation I still can not orgasm!!!He is getting very frustrated and is blaming himself. Is this normal and what in the world am I supposed to do?!

[anabelcrts]

Same here lol I can't have mines neither hahaha I dnt even feel like doing anythng at all :-D and is cuz im preggo which I hated that can't get my O lol but I try and try till I make it haha.. I even get tired faster now cuz my belly is starting to pop out and im 21+1 lol....

[kayelanne]

Have Relaxing techniques?

[yourstruly21]

Oral was the only that made me O when I was pregnant

[Mrs_Baze]

It's not about the destination, it's about the journey! Jay's right, you just need to relax. You won't orgasm if you keep stressing yourself out about it. Just have fun.

[kayelanne]

We do all that I guess I just can not relax

[its_jay]

I know your body is changing so much, its overwhelming. . Seriously it's safe to have all the sex you want. . While in the moment forget about it all and get lost in the passion, stay feeling sexy and have fun! Do what you do, play around,  try new things, different positions all that stuff.. maybe even starting off with a nice hot steamy shower together can kick off some sexy time((: you can do it!! Dont be discouraged. . :D

[kayelanne]

He said I seemed tense and uncomfortable during...this is my first baby so it's hard to get used to....grr how do u do it..

Yes lmao...foreplay! But it just seems like nothing will work...but if he wants me to he will work w me

[kayelanne]

He said I seemed tense and uncomfortable during...this is my first baby so it's hard to get used to....grr how do u do it...

[shellie409]

Maybe trying some lube like ky yours and mine? Or more foreplay before getting started? Sometimes i want to smack my husband with a book containing foreplay moves lol he likes to get to it and im like hello?! :p

[its_jay]

You still have a ways to go, relax and maybe not putting so much pressure on it will help(: enjoy yourself while having sex and you never know, that amazing feeling may come back!! I'm at 37 wks tomorrow and can't believe what i can still sexually achieve! The point is to have fun doll!! :D

[kayelanne]

Its really hard not to get upset about...

[mommytobe062013]

Ok i have the same problem a little. I can orgasm,  but not like how i did before i got pregnant...so i'd say its pretty normal. Im 16+1

[kayelanne]

21 weeks. But it felt great at the beginning and now touching myself won't even hardly work...

[its_jay]

How far along r u??

[kayelanne]

Well your lucky...nothing is going  right for me in this pregnancy

[hayang]

this sounds tragic. I'd die. lol but sometimes orgasms are harder to achieve during pregnancy. i know that is like not helpful at all, but i orgasm soooo easily lol. in like every position hahaha

[its_jay]

I think it is normal. . Unfortunately some woman just cant reach the big O while pregnant, even with the sex drive. . Sometimes i feel like i cant orgasm, even though the sex is great and my husband just refuses and doesnt give up on me reaching my orgasm so he is patient and keeps making me feel amazing until i do. .