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[mumsy1977]

THE THING IV REALISED ABOUT THIS FORUM IS THAT IF YOUR IN THE "CLICK" YOUR QUESTIONS GET ANSWRED IF NOT THEN YOU GOT NO CHANCE OF HEARING ANYTHING WHILE I REALISE SOME OF THE POSTS ARE TO DO ITH PREGNACY OTHER STUFF ISNT BUT THEN STILL THERE QS GET ANSWERD !!!!! I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND IV POSTED 3MAYBE 4 QS NOW AND DELETED THEM AS NOONE SEEMED INTERESTED THE ONLY POST ANYONE COMMENTED ON WAS THE BFP  SO GO GIVE YOURSELVS A HUG AND HAVE FUN IGNORING ALL THE OTHERS THAT ARE NOT IN THE "CLICK"

[mumsy1977]

O/C = oral contraseptives  if ya not sure on abreviations then go to the heading health page below the discussions and cliick on that theres a link that shows you all the abbs in there :)

[Rellyrell]

Ttc= trying to concieve

O/t= off topic
I also have no idea wat, oc means!!!

[avaortega407]

ohhh ok lol

[5n1]

hey
TTC-trying to conceive
O/T off topic
o/c not too sure

[avaortega407]

i try to answer as many as i can but sometimes i dont because of abbreviations im not sure what they mean so i just stay out lol like ttc or o/c or o/t i have no idea also things about fertility i have no clue so thats my reasons for not answering some questions

[mumsy1977]

thanx im just glad we were all able to get it off our chest and everything be ok i need you lot to get me thru this woteva my outcome i have 4 kids and lost ia baby but tha last misscarrage was diff i got to 14 weeks and had a scan my baby was dead at 12weeks gestation i had to have a d&c to clear me out you would think i am pro at this myself but like they say every preg is diff and they wernt kidding lol inever knew getting a sticky bean could be quite as stressfull as this lol xx

[vacuumprincess]

there is definately no need to apolize about how you FEEL.  This is exactly the place where you can come & express your feelings, thoughts , questions & concerns.

I don't think anyone felt offended really... We just felt bad that you felt excluded.  EVERYONE is welcome here.

[wannabeamama6]

Alright. I read some of the replies but I just had to say. You can always post OT stuff as well. Ik I do bc I am ttc and I've gotten to make a few friends here. Earlier I posted bout my father. But I posted it here after posting it other places. Such as the relationship forum and even yahoo answers. This forum tho some times slow is imo one of the busiest forums on medhelp! That's y I posy my OT stuff here bc it can be quite busy.

This pry didn't make sense. PM me anytime!

[5n1]

Hey,

I guess I am a little to late:) I just saw this post, but, as far as this community, we all make boo-boos, or get upset over silly things girl..It is not sweat..I understand where you are coming from...Yes, people post all kinds of crazy stuff around here, but, that is mainly because WE/THEY all feel comfortable here, and know the people in this community is very supportive, and will do anything they can to help you out...I am so glad that you got this off your chest, and are feeling better about it...

Please dont leave, stick around, I promise you will love the "whacky-ness" around here..

Love ya LADIEs

[mumsy1977]

thanx lol i dindt say it so people would jump on my posts all the time but just a little feedback from time to time would be nice but like tey said they can only comment if they no the answer but i also saw a comment that said she post on everyone to say she looked but couldnt help just that is nice to no were not been ignored anyhow hopefully ill be in a better mood tomz and wont be so grouchy lol i just need my bed i think my brain needs a rest thanks for understanding to you all and been there when i thought you had all deserted me :)

[Ashelen]

Of course we can be friends!! Everyone understands a bad day, that's kinda why I was hoping we could talk in private so you didn't have to worry about people getting upset over the post.

No harm, no foul.

I promise to keep an eye out for your posts in the future :).

-Ashe

[mumsy1977]

thanx xx :)

[mumsy1977]

sorry!! and i got your messages but i felt i needed to let everyone no my feelings on this forum then they would realise just how it seems and by the feedback  i got on here im sure i just got people all wrong and hope we can all be freinds equally thanx

[ammanda]

Dont even worry about it hun, you have every right to express how your feeling, and we understand. this is a hard time in your life and we all know that feeling.. I am sorry you felt ignored during this time.  and if i can help I will anytime.

[mumsy1977]

now it seems iv got my point across not only for me but some of the other girls that backed me up it seems iv offended some people by talking bout my prob so to all who answed to this thankyou and sorry at the same time i do plan on sticking around  and hope that people will not avoid me bc i spoke up ,ive been having a really tuff time this week and hoped id get answers today from the hospital but as i dindnt i thought i could get a little backup on here and yes i was a little impatient and decided to sound off at everyone over it i hope you can undertand where im coming from as you people are the only people who know bout my pregnancy as i didnt want to tell anyone for this reasonand you are the only ones i can ask about it my partner doesnt know what to do or say to me i really am sorry ladies thanx xx

[ammanda]

I agree with Ashelen, the posters who comment on here with OT(off topic) posts are because they have been here for awhile and they trust in these ladies to answer them.  Any one is welcome to post here, we have had this problem before about someone thinking we shouldnt be able to post in here if its not pregnancy related.  But no matter what its gonna happen you cant prevent it.

I think you took this too personally, next time your question doesnt get answered enough for you, simply comment on it yourself with a Bump* and it will bring it back up to the top for others to see.  and you also gotta get on here at the right time.  Mostly in the mornings is when everyone is on more on week days..  and it is the holiday season so not many people are on right now.. i have not seen your post yet, because i just signed in and this was the first post, but if i can help and have any knowledge on your topic I will be sure to help you in any way.

I also hope you arnt to offended and hurt, and plan to stay here.  

[vacuumprincess]

I just saw your good egg bad egg post because it got bumped to the top.

At first I wasn't going to answer, because I went through that situation at 13 weeks last year & it didn't end well.  then I decided to post, because you wanted answers.

I understand how angry you are right now 7 how your emotions are all over the place.  You seem mad at everyone & I understand.  believe me, I understand.  go ahead & let it all out.  yell, scream, shout, cuss anything you want.  it may help it may not....
but perhaps itwould be better suited for in a journal... rhen those who want to read & comment will see it on a side bar & not feel like it is a threat directed at them specifically.

[Ashelen]

No, this forum is welcome for all topics. We prefer that the topics stay related to pregnancy, TTC, or childbirth but we aren't going to turn people away for posting "O/T" (off topic) because they are members here and deserved respect and communication as well.

While yes, most of our members have a good knowledge of pregnancy or related topics, that doesn't mean we have ALL the answers.

I tried to contact you to discuss this in private. If you do not want to talk to me, please contact a moderator to discuss your concerns.

-Ashelen

[mumsy1977]

then shouldnt that be on a diff forum as im posting PREGNANCY18-34 and thought people entered the forum either full of knowladge or wanting answers in that department

[SunWorshiper_26]

I just answered one of your posts but I hadn't read this post yet I just came to it as I was going through and answering posts. Now I'm reading this one an I see that your last post had many comments. I think that with your last post because you were asking if anyone else had gone through it that many won't post bc they haven't been through it.

Anytime I'm on here i answer as many posts as I can. I'm on my cell so I can't immediately tell who has even asked the question but then again it doesn't matter. I answer if I know the answer if I notice someone hasn't answered and the person posted a while ago i try and post that I don't know but I did read it that way they don't feel ignored.

You have to remember too that the last week was hectic for most bc of the holiday. But I don't think that it is fair of you to say that people are doing this to you on purpose. I'm no click kind of girl never have been never will be and I always treat others how i would want to be treated and I think that is very important in this forum!

[vacuumprincess]

no one Has to answer anything. We only answer because we WANT to.  Nobody is getting paid to answer(I don't think).  The answers came because others WANTED to help you with your questions. Perhaps others looked to see what you asked because the missed it before.  I don't think there is any pity.

I have been off here quite a bit because of the holiday( in US here).  I have been really busy & not on med help, so that is wht I missed it I'm sure.  I also did not look up your posts, cause I thought you said you deleeted them???

[Djan2011]

That's a really good point the random questions about relationships & such get lots of replies because ANYONE can answer them."  so i guess i was being selfish thinking people should know what im going through and how to help or hat i should do. lol Thank you for pointing that out! now i feel kind of silly

[vacuumprincess]

the random questions about relationships & such get lots of replies because ANYONE can answer them.  You don't have to be pregnant, been pregnant or any of that to answer that stuff...  everyone can get involved.  I didn't get it at first either.  I thought this forum was black & white.  either you were pregnant or trying.  that is not the case at all.  If you just have an intrest in pregnancy, been pregnant, trying, not trying, have grown children.... it doesn't matter.  Everyone has knowledge that can be passed on.

pregnancy, ttc or parenting questions take some sort of background knowledge on the specific topic that not everyone has.  I doubt your postswere intentionally ignored.  I have asked questions & gotten tons of responses.  I have also asked & gotten none.  sometime is it the subject that no body knows about.

like I stated before... timing is a big thing.  If nobody is around that knows the answer... bump it to the top later on.  

[mumsy1977]

THANKS FOR YOUR COMMENT TOO AND THE ABOVE POST APPLIES TO YOU TOO IF YA NEED AN ONLINE BUDDY AL DO MY BEST FOR YOU AND ANSWER ANY QS :)


TO EVERYONE ELSE
I FEEL LIKE PEOPLE SAW THIS POST AND THEN LOOKED AT MY OTHER POST AND ANSWERED IT OUT OF PITY! I DONT NEED YOUR PITY I WANTED ADVICE AND ALTHO I GOT SOME I WOULD OF PREFERRED IT TO HAVE BEEN COS PEOPLE WANTED TO ANSWER IT NOT BECAUSE THEY FELT THEY HAD TO  BUT THANX ANYWAY