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The father of my unborn son and I aren't together anymore.  We argue every day. He's a very independent person. He doesnt like to be confronted or ask any questions of ANY kind. We can't seem to get along. what can I do to fix this?  
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Best of luck to all of you! I hope things look up for you!
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I'm going through the exact same thing.  My baby's father is completely selfish and does nothing but start arguments and bring stress. Now he tells me he is moving over an hour away. He refused to go with me to doctors appointments or to do the registry and says his problem is I dont cook or clean (which is a complete lie and I proved it to him) he tells me that "its not in me to do these things and fulfill his needs.  I should do these things even though he doesn't do them in return" the last time he cooked for me was over a year ago. Best of luck to you
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least your will focus on the child....i have no problem communicating with mine at all were not together he says he wants to be friends..
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He claims his only focus is the child but if hes not willing to fix his selfish ways or try to make things better with me then how is that even believeable.
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You alone can't fix it he'll need to make an effort to. And if he wont change it probably wont work cuz there will always be the same problems
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I keep saying I'm gonna quit answering his calls and texts and for some stupid reason I cant. I really don't know what to do.
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Nothing if he isn't willing to change. If he's so independent he should have thouht of that before getting you pregnant.
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