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confused !!

I have a 4 month old baby boy and a boyfriend. The baby is not his but from another man. The babys father says he love the baby but yet never call too ask how he is or what he needs. My boyfriend has decided that he wants too adopt the baby, and we should just for get about forget about the baby's father I don't know what too do anymore :( please help by give me your advice.
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I know somebody who got pregnant by her bf. He didn't was to anything to do with her nor the baby even though the baby is for sure his. He looks just like the dad. She is now married to a man. Has a baby with him and he adopted her baby. If you are comfortable with your bf having just as many rights to him as you do then do it. But I personally think its something you should think strongly about.
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Honestly if your boyfriend is willing to take the role as a dad to a baby that isn't his because the real one isn't there I would let him. The real dad should be asking and giving you stuff to help out with his baby not just say that he loves him he has to support him and be there.
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