crush .. ?

[swlucille]

So my bf/fiance tells me that he thinks its okay to be married but have a crush on someone else and im just like what i think once you marry someone all that love should be in that one person you married why would you want to like someone while your married to another? It sounds ridiculous to me like i wanna see it from a guys point of view but all i see is immaturity of wanting to still check out girls and have highschool crushes ? Anyone think im over reacting?

[Creole_Hunni_bunn]

Only if that b%@$! is beyonce. If she is Judy from down the street, I dont think you are acting enough.

[swlucille]

Yea im not talking about looking im talking about liking someone other than your husband or wife

[OctoberBaby5]

@katie I agree with that but looking and crushing are two different things for sure

[swlucille]

Omg thanks ladies i thought i was being overdramatic!

[OctoberBaby5]

I was gpnna say it defeats the purpose of getting married but even before marriage I dont think thats okay

[OctoberMommy2014]

my fiancé would no longer be my fiancé if he thought that way. smh.. good luck girly! you're not overreacting at all. I hope you can talk some since into him.. or let him read all of our responses!! lol

my fiancé actually agrees with me.. he wouldn't have put a ring on my finger otherwise. that's ridiculous..

[Katie92lady]

Its human nature to look and be attracted to the other sax. My husband and I both are guilty of looking at others. Its as long as you don't follow through we all are human and hell I look at the nice piece of man walking down the road most defiantly!!! Remember you have the most delicate part of him his heart and child.

[Guinb24]

Wth no way. I'd flip out and slap him lol. That's just me. Once you're married you're both in it for each other and no one else. That excludes crushes. That's just dumb

[OctoberBaby5]

I agree with all of you ladies!

[kitty_lea]

Someone else once told me that in their relationship they both have innocent crushes on other people.. and they think it's okay as long as they don't act on those feelings. but to be honest, i think that's crazy. I would freak the hell out if my fiance told me that

[sonita5]

Not at allll wth when u get married thats when u give ur all to someone and show ur love for only that person.

[alexx1216]

Not at all, I would of flipped.