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4331946 tn?1355816857

crying crying crying..

So in 17w i jus go bak from well my now ex bf house i found out he has been cheating i feel awful my heartbeat is going like crazy he left me all bruised up he broke my fone..my lower stomach feels weird im scared for a miscarrige i feel so depressed ladies :/
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4476664 tn?1361632949
I went through a scuffle with my ex fiance..I went to the hospital. I was 9wks. I'm now 13w and baby and I are okay. My bruising is finally going away. Don't let other people take your happy, you will be fine. Oh I also had him arrested but he was in my house and wouldn't leave. I have court in a few weeks but so be it. And like you, it was the first time and d*** sure the last time. That person who commented before assumed that we ladies stick around with abusive men...smh. if you feel something is wrong go to the ER.
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I'm glad everything is ok with you and your bub. Stay strong x :-)
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4331946 tn?1355816857
@anastashia no dont say that every comment matter here except umm sum random girl named m3a but thank u nd everyone else for ur support!!!! @hayang hahaha thats how we all suppose to be stick together if thers a mean poster pssshhh wd better get on that case! Lol defend us mommys :)
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I'm sorry I just had to pop in to say that I love how everyone got your back against that mean poster lol. that's what I like to see (x
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I guess my comment doesn't really matter anymore lol glad you have it all figured out and that your smart enough to leave. Allot of girls now a days don't know how to leave their abusive partners and their babies.ate the ones who suffer. Good luck.
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Call the police right now! Think of your child you have a responsibility as a mother.
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4456535 tn?1355894638
Go to the er well idk if you already went and yes do that because alot of womeb dont have the support the way you do rite now so they live with it but as you can see alot of people care about you your little onr and yalls well being so please be really careful and keep us updated to see how you two are doin
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4545793 tn?1394592544
So glad to hear u and the baby are ok guys are just jerks and he will get what is coming to him.u r a strong preggers and I know u can over come this.

As far as m3a or whatever how dare you !!! Im sorry but we really dobt know anything about this girl besides what she posts here and what she does post on here is her business and not anyone elses this forum is for non judgement and non negative remarks.we r supposed to impower our fellow pregger moms not bring them down..I think if u have nothing nice to say then keep it to yourself...
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3744707 tn?1402187570
what goes around come around babygirl. it may not be the best time but everything will be alright things happen in life for certain reason. dont hurt yourself or the baby by being in that mood be happy love life and love ur baby :D
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3109932 tn?1347067940
thats wonderful to hear don't let no man well little boy get you down and we are here for you (:
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That's great to hear! You go girl! Don't ever let a  piece of **** "MAN" treat you that way. Show him you will not take that. I know it hurts but we are proud of you! :) stay strong girlie, we are here for you! (well most of us, m3a).
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4331946 tn?1355816857
Thank yu ladiess so far my baby is jus fine nd im mentally better now! It hurts but life goes on i talked tocmy mom we r planning me on moving outta state with all the rest of my fam nd putting a restrainin order sorry if idk how to spell that lol

@m3a smh u dont kno my situation dont come here nd judge me this app we r here to help eachother not to judge and uhh exactly if i knew he wudve layed a figer on me i wudnt b dumb enough to go this was the first nd last time be more considerate nd sorry but if u dont plan on helping nd just judgin get out of this app ur not welcome toanybody out even more
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@m3a. Dude Im sure if she thought he was gonna beat her she wouldnt of gone to his house. Secondly - you dont know wtf its like for women in those situations.  Its different for all of them.

Zairia I hope everything is ok and that you took the advice by going to the ER and reporting his *** to the police.
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CALL THE COPS!!!
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3763041 tn?1354906251
Oh hun:-(  please go to the ER, I know its embarrassing to admit that something like this happened and you are sad and heart broken and don't know how to feel or what to do, its such a difficult situation to be in. even tho your scared I suggest going to the hospital, what of he hurt your baby? Even the stress and trauma to the rest of your body is bad for YOU and BABY. If he can do this to his child and you now what makes you think he won't do it after your baby is born, if you don't go top the hospital now there is no going back the day you decide you should have documented it, he should pay for his actions. A restraining order can be placed. Please confide in someone, seek the medical attention you need and stay away from him. Be strong, now is your time top show your child you will be a good mommy, make sure he/she is ok and healthy and SAFE! And on the plus side they will give you an ultrasound and tell you what your having:-)  like I said I know how hard it is to be in the position your in right now, but go!
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^^^^I don't think anyone "allows" their mates to abuse them. You should be more considerate of her situation..
I hope all is okay with your baby and yourself. I'll be praying for u hun:)
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@m3a why did you even comment if you had no advice??? Why are you even on this site if your going to judge?

As far as advice for you goes, I agree .about taking pictures and documenting this. Def. Go to the er just to be safe. And I don't think you should get back with him ever he obviously doesn't care about you and the baby. Is he the babies father or just bf? Good luck:/ update us
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m3a
Why do any of these pregnant females even allow they mates to abuse them while they are carrying on another life inside of them, then turn and ask for advice..
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I agree with alejandrina, take pictures of what he did to you and document this ****!! And go to the er if you haven't already
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please go to the er and take pictures of what he did to you and have that piece of trash arrested! My prayers are with you
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4378548 tn?1358554779
Awe honey I'm so sorry. *hugs* that's horrible of him. But if you start hurting or anything changes with the weird feeling in your tummy, go to the hospital please.
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Agreed.. get to hospital and tell them everything that happned.... get him arrested for this its disgusting!! My thoughts are with u xx
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I agree, go to the er, better safe then sorry. Goodluck hope everything is ok with your bub xx
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Please go tobthe ER if you think something affected the baby,its the safest thing to do for you and the baby.
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