Her time will come when it's right. We tried again a couple months after the due date. We have a healthy and happy girl. My friend tried right away after her miscarriage. It just depends on when the person is ready.
Maybe by the time you have a shower she will feel differently about being there she's going to need help getting through this an I hope she let's you help her I'm sorry for both of your loses!
My Gender Party Is In Two Weeks. I Doubt She Will Want To Come. I Told Her I Was Here. They Would Have Been My First Nieces Or Nephews, So I'm Pretty Broken Over It. Not To Mention Hormones.. They Make Things 10Xs Worse!
I love My Baby To The Moon. I Just Feel Terrible. I Was Having All These Plans Going Through This With My Sister. But I'm Happy My Baby Is Ok. Idk What I Would Do If I Was In Her Situation...
The first time I was pregnant, my sister and friend were pregnant (all within a month of each other) I lost my baby on Xmas morning. It was the hardest thing I have ever gone through. I only have talked about it with my husband. I never bothered me that other people I was close to were pregnant. I didn't have any hard feelings towards them. It was something that I needed to deal with myself. I was 11 weeks. So by the time the shower came I was able to keep it together and enjoy the celebration of my niece. Meeting my niece who was born 7 days after my due date was hard. I cried the whole way. But its something that you learn to accept and move on. My friend however made it much harder by constantly asking if it was hard to see her baby b/c mine would be the same age... The fact that you are already thinking of her feelings is very thoughtful. But every baby is worth celebrating. Even if it is hard for her, she will be happy for you. Just limit your talk if she is there. And just see how she feels. Don't pressure her into talking about her loss but if she wants to talk be there to listen.
I went threw something similar. I got pregnant unplanned and my cousin gave birth to a still born when I was about 10 weeks along.. I've had the same feelings too. But when it comes down to it.. You can't let that steal your happiness.. The timing is bad but things happen. I know that sounds harsh but that's what it comes down to. Your sister is grieving.. She's going to have her process, but your baby is a blessing. No matter what the circumstances.. I know you know that, but don't let someone else convince you other wise!