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my ex girlfriend had twins. after birth she states that my babies died. she says she donated the babies bodies. I asked her for a death certificate or a proof that my babies died like she said. she doesn't want to show me any proof. i need to now what happened to my babies. how can i obtain that particular information? please help me!!!!
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875268 tn?1332768851
I think the girls above have said it all really, I'd suggest the same (as in go to the hospital and explain why you want to know). Just wanted to say that whatever the case is, she's incredibly mean!
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202436 tn?1326474333
If you are in the united states you can go to the department of vital records in the area she gave birth and ask them to do a search for a death certificate or report of stillbirth for the babies. These are public records and since you are under the impression that you are the father you should have no problems gaining access.  If the births were more than 6 weeks ago and there are no records found then most likely she is lying.  
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Do you have any proof that she even had twins? Or a baby? I don't mean to be ruined but I've known a lot of young woman who fact pregnancy for attention.
If you have proof and ik she really was pregnant. Then I'd check the hospital. Tell them u think u are the father get a lawyer. Check adoption agencies ect. Once u think uve found them get a paternity test.

I'd hurry. Ik in the US fathers have 3 months to come forth and clam custody of their children. After 3 months legally ur parental rights are taken away. If the children were adopted.

That's my understanding. I had a teacher who was adopting and that happened to her.

Good luck.
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317019 tn?1532965586
it sounds shady that she wont provide any proof of their death....have you tried contacting the hospital?
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1303813 tn?1303159362
You need to seek legal advice.
Was she defo pregnant and went full term, and was everything okay during the pregnancy?

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676912 tn?1332812551
I'm not sure there is a way if you have no legal proof that you are related to her or the babies. You may want to talk to a lawyer.
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