delivery room question

[mommyof2nowtp]

Please no negative comments
Me and the father are not together in only 23 weeks along but when time comes for baby to join us in the world, if his father wants to be in the labor and delivery room when he's coming, since he's the father is it like his right to be in there? I'm asking because I'm not sure how I'll feel but what if I don't feel comfortable with him being there since we're not together and he's committed himself to someone else?

[mommyof2nowtp]

I think I will talk to her about it. I don't want him to feel like I'm keeping him from something that involves baby. Maybe he won't even be there. I felt like invite was to early to ask if he'd want to be in there but maybe invite should ask? I'm thinking way ahead i know, thank you for all the advice and support :)

[alisonk170]

Its your delivery and you need to do whats right for you. You can always let him in early on and see how you go. You never know he may be an amazing support for you and if not you can ask you'r midwife to get him to leave.

[Roxxxy915]

Zietonna ^ iagree!

[Zietonna]

If this was my situation I wouldn't want him there Ya maybe he is the father but he isn't there for you. You say he is in a relationship well to be honest and im saying this if it was my situation I would tell him to F off. That delivery room is not for him. Yes you have time but if it was me he wouldn't be allowed to be there. Good luck and I wish you the best.

[Sass508]

I can understand him wanting to come to the hospital to meet his baby BUT the delivery room is your personal bubble. See how it goes over the next few weeks but it's your choice

[mommy2beforthe3x]

I think whatever you choice is ok. you never kniw maybe this baby change his way of thinking as well as yours. but for now relax you still have time.