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Who is going to be aloud in your room? I was told I can have up to 2 people but how do I choose, of course my hubby but he wants his mom and I want mine! Now I'm stuck
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4591205 tn?1410605174
im allowed 3 i want him my mom(whos making a special trip to hoio from cali just for this) and my sis. He started whining when i told him that cuz he wanted his mom in there because she never seen any of her grandchildren being born, and its his baby too. and i told him i understand how he feels and yes it is our child, but im the one that is going to be laying there in more pain than he will ever feel in his life and i want the people there that i am most comfortable around. I am not that close with his mom and i kinda dont want her in there while im delivering looking at my vag and stuff. He whined and i told him when it comes down to it I am the patient and if i don't want him in the room he won't be either. It's your choice who to have i there not his regardless
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Im gonna have three in my room my boyfriend my mom and his and if they dont like I dont care hahaha lol
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I say your mom, you will want her when the time comes. It may just be a little akward with his mom. Im glad my hospital allows however many people you want
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2082492 tn?1366727308
we were allowed 3 people in the room and i said i want my husband, my dad and it was either his mom or his dad. but i cut it all out and said i only want my husband in there. so itll be me and my husband and the dr and of course our lovely baby girl once she arrives!
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4331946 tn?1355816857
Ur mom! I rather have support in giving birth from my mom than my bfs if he was the one that needed support then it wud b his mom
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4928337 tn?1362751166
An easy way to solve it is don't allow eathier if it is going to cause a problem. You will be just fine with just your husband :)
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4928337 tn?1362751166
Haha. I learned the hard way. With my first and second I had everyone. Nightmare. So just my husband.
And I say your mom over his. He should respect that. Its her place to be their for you threw this. And everyone else should understand that.
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If you're only allowed to have two then your husband and mil should understand that you would rather have your mom then his! Good luck hun :)
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I don't want my mil to see my downstairs area too but I also don't want to hurt anyones feelings.
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My husband will be the only one in my delivery room, I had my mom in there when I was laboring but had her leave when it was time to push..I wanted the special moment just between my hubby and I! This time my mom will be watching my son so she wont be there but I def agree with the other ladies have your mom you're the one pushing the baby out..I know I wouldn't want my mil anywhere near me while I'm pushing! Lol
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4545793 tn?1394592544
Im having my mom and husband..my husband said that he wanted his mom also in the room but ya I don't want her seeing my downstairs lol
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I think it will only be me and my bf but i have a feelin ima want my mommy after awhile lol
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4774515 tn?1359650004
I had my husband and best friend in the room for my first bc we lived out of state. This time it will only be my husband and me bc my mom will be taking care of our son :) I would definitely pick your mom over his mom bc I don't think I would want my mil seeing my "down there" area lol
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3860275 tn?1358726110
I would have your mom, you will me more comfortable with her then your MIL.
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5002615 tn?1366014009
I think in miss i can have many ppl but id want my mom in there and my Boyfriend but i feel like im going to be an annoying loud screaming lady lol. but defiantly take your mother!
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We're only allowed 1 so it will be my hubby :-)
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5094917 tn?1366986485
I say your mom as well because its all about you being comfortable. I will have my BD, and mom. That's if she can stand it she has a very week stomach
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My hubby will be there. I want my sister there too sooo bad but she has to work.
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I only want my bf in the room
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4565938 tn?1357880653
I'm not with my babies dad and he won't be there but my mum and little sister will be there :)
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My first was my husband, my mom and his. This time I want it more special, just me and my husband
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Totally agree,choose ur mom,I think it will b kinda uncomfortable to have ur motherinlaw there.
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4444857 tn?1383325813
Trust me you will want your mom! And it's your choice either way, you're doing all the hard work. :)
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I'd choose your mom! Lol if it were me, my own mom would be more comforting than his. You're the one who will be pushing, you should be able to pick that second person!
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