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I feel so sad. I keep dreaming about my ex who happened to be my first love n I wake up sad. I'm excited to have this baby but it's depressing sometimes to think about my child not having a dad because the baby daddy is being a jerk. I just feel alone.

LiveLoveLifexx · Answer

I keep dreaming about my babys daddy too but things didnt work out with us and we called it quits and i starting going out with a guy at 5 weeks pregnant till today and im exactly 22 weeks now and im completley heartbroken bcus he is still in love with his ex and i feel like a mug :/ and now i feel so alone but no deep down that im not cus u have my baby girl growing inside my tummy and feeling her kick makes me feel better:) us girls need to stay strong for.our babies sake!!!:)

bri1x · Answer

He isn't quite an ex yet, but my husband and I just recently split. I honestly hope I don't dream about him. He treated me so wrong. I do feel sad that my son won't have his daddy, but he will be better off without him. Everything will be ok. Stay strong for you and your little one.

93chryssie · Answer

I think your right. Because when I was with him he made me angry n annoyed which is the opposite of who I m. I wish he could have been happy with me but I wasn't myself . Now I m n alot of ppl want to b with me because they know that's who I m n that I'm not hiding anything.

first_time_mommy18 · Answer

I had a.couple.dreams about the same ex I guess in my dream I was with.him and he was okay with me being preg with another guys baby he was rubbing my belly it was wierd...i wake up thinking about.him but things happen fot a reason but fot the most part im happy with my babys father

DreamaMama · Answer

I was having alot of dreams at first about my ex. It was out of guilt because we were together for so long he wanted kids but it was such a toxic abusive relationship but we BOTH couldnt let go till i finally called it quits.i started dating my fiance after and 5 months into the relationship i find out tat i was pregnant. I feel bad because ivwas with my ex for years and didnt give him any kids, then all of a sudden i get pregnant by a new guy. But honestly i wouldnt change anything for the world i love my man hes amazing in everyway im so lucky to have him!<3

giraffe1020 · Answer

I happen to think dreams are about ourselves and not the other person. Perhaps you realize you are a different person than you were when you dated him. You may be trying to hold on to some of those qualities you had around him. Maybe you are sad about how you used to feel.

93chryssie · Answer

Thank you guys for your support. It's hard being a single soon to be mom n it's nice when other women reach out .

leibug · Answer

It happens..ihad dreams of my ex but he was being killed and i was trying to save him

Nellyzz · Answer

oh well that's different if he cheated on u and u cant trust him then yes definatly move on.

93chryssie · Answer

I'm too proud plus I m certain at four months together he was cheating. So it's not worth it. It's just when you love ppl n they break your heart it takes forever to feel secure again

93chryssie · Answer

Your right . Idk y I feel so sad on a normal dy iI'm great. Just these dreams make me so sad.

nanny_alijah · Answer

I know what you're going thru, ive learned that my ex has been talking about missing me and loving me honestly I feel the same but I don't think I can get over the fact that we're having kids by different people cause I wanted to start a family with him and he said he never wanted kids. But like proudftmtete said if he has moved on you should too, yes its hard but it can be well worth it in the end .

Nellyzz · Answer

that really s u c k s. I nearly broke up with my bf I went home and he wouldn't leave my parents house he didn't eat or look after himself he was lost with out me. so I went back still together 4years later. I did love him he loved me and we couldn't give up on each other. I've broken up with alot of guys and we have always gone our seperate ways. but this guy was different. I know your preggo with another guys baby but id really let your ex know how you feel. maybe he got engaged sooo fast was to get over u maybe this new girl is a rebound. id really let him know how you feel.

proudFTMTeTe · Answer

Well sweetie if he has moved on u don't need to waste your thoughts on him u have a baby to be more worried about #just my opinion

93chryssie · Answer

He spent a yr with me then we broke up because of too many problems. Two weeks after breaking up he's talking to a girl three months thier engaged. I never got over it. N I made some dumb choices out of bitterness n hurt which led to my pregnancy.