ectopic pregnancy

Question

hiya room well i was pregant but found out tuesday that it was ectopic had surgery done wednesday thay removed my right tube  and told me that my left is also blocked all our dreams taken away in a flash  anyone going through same thing i could really do with somwone to talk to that understands the pain and hheartache  im going throgh .. karen

Desperatelywishing · Answer

i know this is not quite the same, but i had my tubes tied 6 years ago. since then ive had my AF on point every month just like when i was on the pill.. my last cycle was on march 16th, i had very light spotting that only lasted a day on April 2nd. i have not had AF since. i have swollen tender breasts, nausea, fatique, heartburn, etc etc. ive been told that it may be ectopic but from what i just read, calculating my dates, i would be 6 weeks along if it was, so then i would be in some kind of pain right? im not. also ive had 3 neg tests so far. going to take another in the AM with FMU. haven't taken one in 2 to 3 weeks with FMU so... worth a try. i keep getting told to go to the Dr. but until i get paid, which is on the 15th of may, i wont have any extra money to spare. im just curious if there could e other reasons why im going through this. others keep telling me its impossible to get prego with your tubes tied, im just going nuts here getting criticized for asking these questions, am i being legit in my concerns for being 2 weeks late for my Af or what? if it was not for the other symptoms combined with the lateness, i wouldn't worry, but this has got me upset. usually when i get the neg result ( back when i could be prego) i would start within  24 to 48 hours. that is not happening this time. someone please talk to me without telling me im being stupid? im 33 years old with 3 kids already, im not a child, i just need answers. thanks in advance.

kelliestarr · Answer

Hey sorry for your loss. I had an ectopic pregnancy too back in 2005. My right tube rupsured but one doctor said they removed it but then another doctor said they repaired it, I don't know. Anyway I am pregnant now and everything is fine.
Hopefully you will be fine too. Good luck!

kazzy1976 · Answer

hiya . ifound out as i  had lower paiin and spotting  so i went to the earlie pregnancy unit and the done a internal scan  which showed i didnt have a pregnacy in the correct place and that it was in my tube also they new by the amount of pain i was experiencing from the internal hope this helps you

stellkas · Answer

I am so sorry for your loss.  Right now I am waiting and seeing kind of with the whole tubal pregnancy.  I hope this is not too much to ask, but how did you find out it was tubal?

evthing4reason · Answer

I am so sorry, I can't believe what you must be going through right now. I hope that you can cose to adopt ro to take foster kids in and hopefully they will be able to unblock your tube

kazzy1976 · Answer

thyanks for your reply helps alot to have someone to talk to whats iui ? my consultant was niot helpfull at the hospital just told me tube blocked and dout there unblock it but ill go and see my original consultant soon as i have recoverd a bit did you have 8 ectopic pregnancys ? sorry for your loses its so hard

Bridgett08 · Answer

yes i had one i was about 8 to 10 weeks, the Doc had to do emergancy surgery on cause it was about to rupure my tube, but thier is still ways you can have a baby. ask ur doc what they can do to unblock ur other tube. then they should be able to put you on something to help you ovulate more with that one tube, i have lost 7 all in all. and now my husband and i are doing the iui procedure before we do anything more and thier is alot of ladies that have to do the samething...but may be for diffrent reasons...I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST...................