emotional help

[mumtobe44]

Hi ladies,im ftm n 18w3d today i find out im having a little princess..... im really happy n excitet..... until few hours ago... me n my hubby had an argument.... first we decided v r not going to tell anyone about the gender but i was so excited that i called n tell my aunty(my moms sis) about it... im very close to her n besides need some advice since my mom died 5 years ago.... i didnt tell my hubby (cuz i think he didnt like her much) (v had issues after our mariage, he thinks that i tell her every personal thing n she spreads it in family,, thats not true) bout the call but then my cousin started msgs to me of congrats n sooo.... my hubby was sitting next to me n read the msgs  
he asked me if i have told my cousin n i said no then after some time he asked me again n i told him that i called my anuty.... he didnt say anything after that but its stressing me out........ im feeling really depresed..... i want to throw these thoughts out of my mind but im unable to do that plus the memories of hard times of marriage making it worse.... im in other room n crying continusly.... he knows im upset but still busy in laptop...... sorry for such a long text but need help........
n support

[mumtobe44]

Thanks for ur support...... He's not mad at telling the gender..........mad at telling my AUNTY :-( its all complicated.....
He's the mamas boy all he cares about his own family more than anything n v havent told his family yet
secondly my monster-in-law is planning to come n stay vid us n she's the all troubl.... she likes to control everyone....... n i just want to run away frm her

[scillacts]

Aww,lucky, I'm 18wks 3days and I'm having my second baby boy. Is there a reason why he wants it a secret for awhile.? I did a gender reveal tht same day I found out. So my family had to wait till I got there. Just relax hunn, the only person you told was your aunty, it's not like you told everybody as much as you want to. When everything calm just ask him when are you guys telling the news as it's your first child and your excited.