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I feel totally alone I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to. my boyfriend doesn't seem to get why im so emotional all the time and I don't feel like he is excited about our baby when ever she kicks or moves I try and get him to feel but he doesn't :'( I really dunno what to do anymore :'(
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Im the exact same way. My boyfriend and i live together and every day after he gets home from work he runs off with his friends and i always feel so alone. It makes me really depressed & he always reassures me that im not but it doesnt help the way i feel
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Every man is different honey. As women we form a bond the moment we are with child, we're emotional creatures.

Men sometimes don't register what is happening fully until our water breaks and they hold their baby for the first time.
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its just hard im trying to do whats best for me and my lil girl he seems to be changing slowly but I still dont know what to do :-( thank u for all the advice tho ladies :-)
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He's going to do whatever you allow hun. You have top set the bar high & if he wants to be a man, husband, & father he'll reach for it. I'm sorry you're going through this. Find your inner strength & do what you have to so your baby can have the best mommy possible. It's painful but you can do it :)
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im scared too but I still have to get on with it and prepare for her arrival
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thing is ive only got 7 weeks left now I dont understand why he doesnt touch my belly I love it when she is having a gd riggle and kick! im starting to think he doesnt give a dam now tbh he hasnt even brought much for her ive got everything
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Hes probably scared
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My boyfriend was the same way when he found out I was pregnant. HE didn't want to touch my belly or nun. But now he starting to realize I'm having his first child he can't stop touching my stomach talking to our baby. Just take it day by day, he might just have cold feet. Pray for the best.
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Your alone u have someone with u all the time your BaBy
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I'm the same sat in on my own a lot, family members going on holiday for my due date. Only have my mam to talk to but she works and stuff. Boyfriend just wants to do his own stuff and i feel lost myself.
To past the time i just look at baby stuff and read about the baby feel really sad!
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