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I asked my husband to spend Christmas with me instead of his mom so we can announce our first pregnancy together his reply was I don't want to be a spectacule.and that's not what Christmas is for..I'm like Wth then he saw I was upset and was like I will make a exception for u. But I prefer to go to my moms....I don't want to announce it at all then for christmas...also I said I was gonna fly my mom out n he said its not that serious...help me please I don't understand
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4020799 tn?1355825570
Mummies boys!!! Ive been with my bf for 12 yrs, lived together for 5yrs, we have spent one christmas dinner together! Normally we open presents together at home then i take him to his mums then i go to my mum n dads! Now tho we have decided that we are gonna have to start splitting our day.... they dont get on lol
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3142459 tn?1343233324
have different days to get together and have your Christmas get together. as someone who grew up in a split family you have no choice but to do that, i spent Christmas day w my mom and then my dad picked us up the next day or so and we went and had Christmas with him and his family, the next year we would have Christmas day with him and then go to my moms. Or as my fiance and his ex do have half the day for one parent and the other halve for the other, switch every year. that way everyone gets to see everyone on Christmas day.
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