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first time teen mums?

Im 16 years old and 24 weeks pregnant, I spend a lot of my time with my boyfriend (baby's daddy) he has been the absolute best through my pregnancy so far and i couldnt ask any more of him and im very close with his family so I stay there quite a lot but I think it makes my mum jealous because she is always moaning about me spending so much time with them, and she always wants me home.she hasnt got a problem with them though they get along quite well but even when I do come home she doesnt really spend time with me and shes always on and off with me , sometimes when I talk about the baby she will talk properly with me but other times its like she dont want to know me , feel like theres no point in me even coming home , does anyone else get this with their mums, any advice on how to make things work
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4642801 tn?1364034108
you have to remember to her, her baby has announced she is pregnant, that's a strain on any mother, especially when to her your still young, still a child in her eyes. To add to that pressure, she probably feels like she's loosing you, not only to your boyfriend, but to his family too. Her automated response is probably not the best one because it's pushing you further that way but it's also natural. Talk to her about how she's on and off and how it makes you feel, and respond to her. opening up should invite her in to your life that she feels she's missing out on, while solving it to, and strengthening your bond. Hope this advice helps, best of luck.
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4945970 tn?1361450429
Well I never been in that situation but I don't want you to be stressing about it I'm sure she loves you may not like the situation but maybe she is still not use to her baby girl being pregnant but I really think you would tell her exactly how you feel cause your going to need her and vise versa IM not an expert but in do wish you the best.
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