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6003341 tn?1389318531

friends

Im 19 and pregnant (not complaining, its the best thing that ever happen to me... besides my husband) and i have never gotten along good with girls... always hung with the guys... well now i feel how much it ***** not having some girlfriends to talk to about the baby... i have my family and work people but i wish i had a best girlfriend to go through this with me.

anyone else have the same problem?
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6403762 tn?1381712518
I'm 22 and don't really talk to anyone!  There's one person I can really count on and that's my fiance
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I'm not 19 but I'm in the same boat. It's hard not having friends.
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6934157 tn?1387157656
I'm in the same boat as you! I'm 19 and haven't had friends in awhile. My best friends are all out of state for school...and the other people I used to hang out with, I haven't really talked to since high school. I feel like all I do is go to work and school and then I'm home with my fiancee at night (if he's not working). It majorly ***** and I miss having people to go to lunch with, get my nails done or just talk to.
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5946774 tn?1389187935
I have two very close girl friends since I prefer to not have friends who are girls since it all drama. One has a baby and the other is my sons godmother and is like his second mom. The only problem is one is 4 hrs away and the other is 8 i moved to san diego one is still in our hometown and my sons god mother is in san jose. I wish they were here with me because sometimes texting, calls, and skype aren't enough!
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6712392 tn?1393708678
I have that issue too. I have two girl friends but they live a state away and the only people around for me to talk to are my hubbys family and I feel like they get so tired of hearing about it.
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6883059 tn?1395509077
I know how you feel. You would think a 19 year old like myself would have a lot of friends... Wrong lol the majority of my friends we're males also & the few female friends I had we barely spend time together since 2012 grad. It would be nice to have that female friend who feels like a sister & you could talk about your pregnancy too. I'm really happy for the wonderful ladies on this app tho. They're like the only ones I can talk too & I know they understand me. Too bad mostly everyone of us lives in a different city or state
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5933363 tn?1389052198
Same thing here. All my best friends were guys. I do have one good girl friend but she moved to Florida, I'm in Virginia. My aunt is throwing me a baby shower and told me to invite my friends... Looks like it'll just be family.  Lol
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