friends

[AMac0525]

Is anyone else struggling with their friends? A lot of mine are still in the college drinking phase. (I'm only 22.) I try to keep them updated with baby girl but they don't seem to care. I'm also the only one married out of all of them.

[KelseyK1027]

I got pregnant with my first at a really young age so it was really hard to understand why my friends didn't hang out with me anymore but now that I'm on baby #2, 18yo, it doesn't bother me anymore. My childrens father is honestly my only friend. Lol

[kay1027]

I only have one friend really I have to much going on. Mine disappeared when I got married so this is nothing new. I would love to have friends to have get together with but that won't happen till I go to college or work lol

[mommyofkade]

Every person that was my friend before I got pregnant is no where to be found . I guess its safe to say I don't have any friends and plus I'm only 19 so I know they have other things they're doing . lol its cool though . its like you find out who your real friends are when you're pregnant.

[AMac0525]

Yeah exactly. They just don't realize something so small can make such a huge impact on your life.

[ftmommy415]

Yeah i lost all friends too its like when we talk they wanna talk about everything going on in their llife but the second i bring up the baby they go silent and have  nothing to say it really annoys me but thats life i guess i think they are just jealous cause im pregnant cause they always wanna talk to me abt their pregnancy scares nd act like they may be pregnant but i cant say nothing about my real pregnancy

[AMac0525]

My sister in law has 2 kids and my husband's step brothers wife is pregnant so I have them but I do miss my friends. But i wouldn't trade my baby girl for anything. If they wanna be there, great! If not, their loss. They're losing me in the process of not being there for me. :/

[mommyinfebruary]

I honestly lost all my friends too. I got pregnant right when I turned 21 so the fact that I can go out n drink makes them ignore me. They randomly text me and I try to have a convo with them but seems they only message to ask for a favor. I just started hanging out with my boyfriends friends girlfriend who is older than me with a one year old and it seems to be going as a good friendship.

[AMac0525]

Yeah i kinda figured I'd need to find new ones. I've been friends with these girls for 8 years so it's kinda hard to let go. I hardly ever see them because all they do is go to bars so I try and txt to start conversation and I get 0 responses. I think i have maybe 3 people that actually care besides family. Lol

[kirsten18]

Yup I honestly have no friends anymore no one calls or texts me anymore kinda *****! But I got better things on the go and a daughter to look forward to❤️

[RockRose]

You probably want to reach out to other potential friends.  You'll be able to connect with lots of other new moms when your baby comes - and they will become your new set of friends.  

The truth is,  although they care about you your pregnancy is probably a little boring to them.  When you hang out with other pregnant women,  they LOVE to talk about pregnancy and babies.

[mommynikol3]

Some people drift away.. they will come back after they are done with the partying... it's life !