getting depressed

[cdubois]

before getting pregnant I had been losing weight I was just over 200lbs and had lost 12lbs. I'm slowly putting this weight back on and an starting to feel very unhappy with how I look. I realize that with baby I'm going to gain some weight. I'm getting married about a month and a half after baby is born but I feel like I'll still be fat. my fiancé doesn'tseem to want to be intimate anymore either. I feel lost I'm hoping there is a way that I can loose my fat and gain the baby andthat maybe after baby is born it'll be easier to shed the last of the weight. any suggestions ladies?

[cdubois]

*ladies

[cdubois]

thanks for the encouraging words makes. I have a long way to go to get where i want to be, but I know I can do it

[tiffffxox]

Ahhh I'm going through the same thing I was 140 lbs now 190 & my bf never touchs me! So a few weeks ago I went shopping (on a budget) & got healthy foods and healthy sneaks for the times you do wanna just eat! And I feel better and I go to the mall as much as I can and walk around not only is it good for you but the baby! Good luck

[4thonecoming]

I had the same problem I lost 30 lbs right before I got pregnant, and I've gained almost all of it back, so discouraging

[klg22]

You can still maintain a healthy weight. You will have to be prepared to put on a bit of weight just keep it healthy,  not burger and softdrink induced :-P if I were you I would walk or swim everyday to maintain muscle tone and recovery after birth quicker and get a healthy diet plan from either your dr or a nutritionist that gives you enough calories and nutrients for a healthy bub and also keeps you trim.  You can do this, just be strict with your lifestyle,  good luck!

[Blicious19]

Ask him see what he says he just might be feeling alittle scared

[Blicious19]

Not to much just eat healthy and excercise. because not all the weight u gain is urs some of it is babys weight

[cdubois]

it wasn't an issueuntil I started to put weight back on

[cdubois]

what can I do about my current weight though? I don' want to get any fatter butI want a healthy baby. is there someway to loose the fat?

[Blicious19]

For now just eat healthy and excercise. an if hes not wanting to be intimate with u anymore just talk to him about it maybr hes just scared to hurt baby

[Blicious19]

U will lose ur weight pretty fast with breastfeeding

[cdubois]

I plan to

[Blicious19]

R u gona breastfeed baby