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So lately my partner has been more excited about the baby than i. I mean I want to have a baby but with always being sick nd already 2 infection it's annoying. When we got the baby's first pic at 8wks I just handed them to him becuz upon that news the doc tells me I have an yeast infection(just great). I feel a bit guilty because I mean I love my baby but with all that's going on I really cnt grasp the beauty of it all. Am I a terrible mother to be?

aidensmommaw01 · Answer

I have.had a horrible pregnancy im 37 weeks and still throw up everyday! Along with that i got bells palsy so i cant move the right side of my face. It completely *****. But i was like you at the beginning not so.happy because i was do sick. Now im use to it and so excited for my little guy to get here

mommaDof3 · Answer

It does not mean you are a bad person or will be a bad mother...I absolutely hate being pregnant,  almost with a passion. I am sick from day one until the better part of my second trimester,  and I just am not myself.  I feel grungy all the time even when I don get dressed up to go on a nice date or whatever. I am constantly tired, I have no energy for my kids that I have to take care of so they suffer in a way.  I get fat and I'm do hormonal and am such a b**** I get on my own nerves. The only time I can enjoy being pregnant is after the fact when I can think about all the good things without having to deal with all the crap and I love my kids more than anything in this world. Plus, I always have an infection when I go for my first appointment and ultrasound...that's how I know I'm pregnant in the first place lol. It will pass by quickly and you will have your little one and its totally worth it.

liyaaugust · Answer

Thank you because it's really been on my mind heavy lately

ericatoday · Answer

No not at all. Its hard to be excited when having a hard pregnancy. It will all change. Lots of women go through this you're not alone. I didn't feel as connected to this baby as I did with my first but once ibhad him that all changed. It was hard for me to think I could love anyone else the same or as much. But I was wrong once I had him I loved him instantly the same.