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I've been feeling a bit guilty because I know Im going to miss this alone time with my husband. Don't get me wrong I am so excited to meet my son and hold him. I already love him so much. But in the back of my mind I keep telling myself I only have 2 more weeks of cuddling my husband alone that everything is about to be diffrent. I am excited for the change just a tiny spot of guilt.
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Oh I'm so glad I'm not the only one that feels like this!! Ftm too!  
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Ohhh Im so glad you ladies understand! I feel a bit less guilty now I know others feel the same. Im sure we will still find our alone time. It will just be diffrent.
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I think om going to be missing the attention that i get from my hubby,

Once our son is here itll be like i dont exist until he needs to eat or needs a diaper change.

I just know how my hubby is, and every bit of his attention will go to baby, which is good for their bonding but like every woman, i need attention too!
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I'm a ftm too! Don't get me wrong I'm excited and can't wait to meet my little one! But I understand exactly how you feel.. I'll miss the alone time and spear of the moment outings.. they say change is good though!!!
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You can still cuddle your husband and have alone time with him when your son is sleeping, you'll learn all the spending quality time tricks after long :)
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I think I'll still be cuddling him and thankfully I'll be able to jump on him drive him crazy. But he laughs at me and says you'll be too exhausted for that lol
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I didn't ever worry about that while I was pregnant but now that my baby is here I miss it so much especially since my bf works so much. Everything is hard in the beginning but I'm hoping things will get better! Just enjoy the alone time as much as you can now
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Don't worry, we all go through that =). When your little man comes it'll be all about him for a little while, but soon you can have family outings together and it'll be a whole new experience. Plus when he gets bigger you can always ask your parents or his parents to watch him so ya'll have a date night just the two of you.  No worries =)!
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