Aa
hate these emotions
So at my baby shower my daughter's god mother filled out her baby book. Im upset about it because I believe that is something that you let a mom and dad do. I wanted Chris and I to fill it out together. Im really upset with how most of it is filled out and now I cant go back and fix it. Chris and I are getting married but not for another year and a half. She and will not have his last name until then but I dont want her baby book different from my future kids and it is going to be because of the way some of the things are filled out. I hate these stupid emotions because now im sitting on my bed bawling like a little baby because of it. I just dont know what to do. I am not buying another baby book but my last name is not gonna be the same as hers in her book :( I dont know what to do
She had no right to do that -.- ugh gets me tight to even think about it. I have to buy 2 baby books since they are twins, i had bought one but my almost 2 year old got ahold of it and wrote all over so lol i cant blame her for sure shes just another curious prncess.
Once I move in with Chris we are gonna go look at some and find the perfect one for us
Omg that's terrible!!!! I would be so pissed! We filled out all we can about Harrison's today and I would feel like I was stepping on someone's toes doing that for someone else since that is typically something parents do. I would buy another one. We got ours from Books a Million and it was like $30ish. They had super cute owl ones for girls. We ended up getting a little green one with an embroidered sweet pea on it!
Thank you. At least im not crying anymore. Gotta love the days where you apparently need to just have a good breakdown of emotions
The water comment made me laugh lol. I love being a woman haha. Don't stress hun, you do whatever you feel like doing.
Girl I so understand the emotional thing just a few days ago I was pouring myself some water and accidentally bumped it and it spilled everywhere I just sat in the floor and cryed I was so frustraited lol my husband walked in saw me aasked if I needed his help and I like growled no and he slowly backed away. The smallest things can trigger a crying spell with me. Oh the joys of high hormones.
Thank you. I needed a pep talk. Guess im just getting the last of these emotions outta me lol less than 24 hours until I go in and start my induction process.
Yeah i know what you mean. you have a right to be upset. Its not all pregnancy hormones. Before i got pregnant i used to get annoyed with stuff like that, but im a little OCD..... Just know she didnt do it to make you upset. She probably got overly excited, and started filling things out thinking it wiuld be a cute idea. Just let her know that yiu dont really want her bio dad briught up or part of the picture at all. So you appreciate it but you wanted to make one that reflects the family she does/will have, not the one she did/never really had. Good luck:/ and cheer up! Your daughter wants you to be happy(:
Chris has already said that we will get another one. I will finish filling it out and give to her, thank you for that idea. I know she was trying to be helpful I just didnt realize how emotional I would get over something being wrong in Bella's baby book
She most likely figured she was being helpful if I was in that situation id buy another one, finish filling the one you've got now out and give it to her as a gift once its complete, since Shes the god mother.
Thank you ladies. I just feel bad for sitting here bawling like a little baby over it. I didnt realize until today what all she had filled out. I new she had filled out somethings but somethings you just wanna do by yourself. Chris may be Bella's step dad but he is the only father she will know if I can help it
If she says anything. Just tell her you didnt want your baby's baby book different from the other kids. But you really appreciate what she did(:
White out will look tacky because most of the pages are pink. Guess ill have to buy another one after I get out. I just don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings is all
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