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How do I tell my husband I have chlamydia
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You just flat out tell him... He has the right to know if you guys are having sex.
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8726042 tn?1399978830
Dam! How u get it?  From him or cheating?  
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Wow , you better get him checked asap!!!
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This is a very intense moment for you , I would be so upset . But I guess things happen when you trust to not use a condom with anyone . No matter, how long the both of you have been together . . .
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We have been together for 3 years u didn't have to be rude baby boy abroad
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Just tell him! I straight out told my boyfriend and he wasn't upset about it. Either because one, he knew he had it and didn't tell me, or two he was just calm about it. Either way, we both got it taken care of. Neither of us pointed fingers at eachother. Just say it and get y'all treated
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She was asking a question. One of you are cheating if you've been together 3 years
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Not true. One of them could have contracted it before and never known. If you dont know the situation dont make blinded assumptions.

You have no choice but to tell him. In the states it can be charged as a crime to continue a sex life when you know you have an std you are passing to your partner and choose to not inform them. So just be upfront and lay it on the table. Or else the medicine you take to get rid of it will do no good and could infect your baby.
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Considering she is 20+ weeks she would have gotten tested for it at her first or second appointment.(:
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Im 21 weeks and 3 days
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I just got tested on August 19
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Honestly what's not going to tell him get you??? You obviously need to sit down and talk about this and how you got it whether it from him or from someone else ..this kind of secret doesn't do any good to keep to yourself.
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Im going to tell him just afraid he will leave me
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10314095 tn?1409242541
You should just tell him. If he loves you he will understand and you can both get through this together. Trust me you guys will be ok. One time pill and it goes away. And if for some reason he doesn't understand, you have your baby that will always be there with. Do it. For your baby's sake you know.
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10314095 tn?1409242541
Men will come and go but your child will be there forever
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7174950 tn?1406661109
Yh if I were you I would tell him and if you have got it from someone else you need to tell that person to get tested because that person should of put  a condom I ent judging I hope things get better hun
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I know he wont leave I just dont want him to get mad
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Tell him asap have a sit down with him then u both go to the Dr n get treated...n if either of u cheated or whatever u need to tell ur other partners so they don't spread it any further n get treated asap also good luck....don't worry about him.leaving u that's the last of ur problems right now
....good luck tho
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I'm assuming you know how you contracted it , but if you just explain and talk it through to him I'm sure things will be OK. Mistakes happen and better judgement isn't always used don't beat yourself up over something that can be fixed ....if you love him and he you there's always a time for things to be fixed ...your having his baby and that's what matters nothing before your lil man is as important as his parents being there for him when he arrives...just breathe and talk to him that's all you can do . I hope the best for you and your family
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7174950 tn?1406661109
Think positive hun you and baby and your baby daddy will be fine I promise good luck
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10064121 tn?1415176073
Because it concerns his health,  you are required to tell him he needs to get tested. I know it will be hard, and he may be upset for a while but he will thank you later if he does have it and needs to be treated.
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Im getting medicine
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7174950 tn?1406661109
babymama1515 good luck hun
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Thank u
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