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help please , ? :/

I have my ultrasound in two days to find out what im having , and its just driving me insane . Wondering if everything is ok . Because im 4'10 and only weigh 122 , and I haven't gained much nor felt alot of movement. Some days my stomachs hard and somedays it not , is that normal ? Plus my boyfriend likes to have sex EVERYDAY and i constantly worry will to much hurt the baby . Im the type to google everything so everyfay I have a new worry , and that annoys my family and boyfriend the most so ... can anyone help me ? :/
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7570109 tn?1399081069
Lol he has his moments:)   good luck mommy!:)
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Lol -_____- he's very mature
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7570109 tn?1399081069
I'm 17 he's 21 in a couple days.. Lol
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Well im 18 , and he's 19 .. I think in his mind id die without sex , lol
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7570109 tn?1399081069
My husband went for bout two months without and we just started again recently.. It shouldn't be a big deal.. He should understand I'm sorry girl.
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And , yeah sometimes I dont feel like having sex , but my boyfriend gets upset plus he likes to do it his way all the time so basically we do it every day ..
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Thanks you guys , this makes me feel alot better now im just working on this cold . Ill ask the sonographer , where my placenta is , thanks I would of never thought to (:
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You remind me of myself. Sex won't harm your baby and it's completely normal not to feel much movement at this stage. I didn't feel much movement and my midwife was convinced I had an anterior placenta, but my placenta is posterior and now baby never stops wriggling. If you have an anterior placenta, it acts as a cushion so you won't feel much movement. You should ask the sonographer where your placenta is when you go for your scan.
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7552244 tn?1393364737
Sex is safe unless the dr says not to.  Just don't stress yourself out momma
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7570109 tn?1399081069
Im 19w and I've only gained 1 pound. But saw the baby and she's perfect.  The sex thing it's safe through the whole way as long as you don't have a medical problem. But If you aren't comfortable then dont let him push you to do it. Im a constant worrier also.. I don't ask my family anymore i go on here to these ladies:)
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7668571 tn?1404573152
I am 19weeks and havent gained a pound yet. My baby girl is growing like a weed.  Sex is NOT an issue as long as you aren't uncomfortable or in alot of pain. My sex drive has went crazy, we do at least once a day!! Stop stressin little mama, your perfectly normal! ;-)
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Your not going to feel a lot of movement right now and its normal to have a hard stomach some days and a soft one other days. Ur stomach will eventually be hard all the time. And sex.wont hurt ur baby unless dr has told you no sex at all for medical reasons.
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