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20 weeks tomorrow got my ultrasound fone and they say its a girl !!!(: caught her with legs spread open lol so excited but my bf is hurt he got his feelings hurt because he thinks my fam. And i made fun of his cus its a girl not a boy and idk what to do to make him feel better i feel like hes not happy at all cus his hopes were high up for a boy
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It's okay he will get over it .. Last Monday I found out I was having a baby girl and my boyfriends jaw dropped saying "I don't think she's right I still think it's a boy " it was like he couldn't face the facts and that straight pissed me off.. I was so excited and he wasnt.. then that night we went to babies r us and he bought so many outfits saying "daddies little girl" he loves her already and it's just the most sweetest thing.. He will come around... All guys hope for boys !
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It will be okay, my boyfriend was the same way. He had his heart set on a boy, and we found out that it was a girl. He was visibly heartbroken during the ultrasound but he came around. It took about a week or so, but now he is super excited and can't wait. She has him wrapped completely around her little finger already. It will work out :) ♡
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He will get over it, my hubby really wanted a boy and looked like they said it was an alien when they said it was a girl. Now im almost 38weeks and she has him wrapped around her finger and she isnt even here yet  lol  just give him some time and remind him hes going to have a little princess to spoil
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Just remind him of all the fun stuff he is going to get to do with his new baby boy. He gets to teach him how to play sports and and play dumb video games together lol just remind him that his new baby boy is going to want to be just like his daddy :) once he see's him he wont care if its a boy or a girl.he will just be happy that hes finally here
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