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I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 26 we have been trying to have a kid for a year. Anything we can do to help the process?
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My husband and i had tried and tried and tried. And come to find out i was making too much testoterone. She put me on metformin whicg is usually for diabetes patients. And it is also makes you more fertal so to speak. I was pregnant within a month of taking the medicine! :) good luck chicka!
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My husband and i had tried and tried and tried. And come to find out i was making too much testoterone. She put me on metformin whicg is usually for diabetes patients. And it is also makes you more fertal so to speak. I was pregnant within a month of taking the medicine! :) good luck chicka!
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Having sex everyday actual builds a sperm barrier in your cervix that prevents other(live/active) sperm from penetrating an egg..also, just a tip not a midwifes tale, but if you are wanting a girl. Do not have sex the day of ovulation the day before to 2 days before you ovulate..in addition to conceiving ialso had 3 out of 3 positive results on gender :) i should be a fertility doctor!
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Get drunk and have sex! Lol kidding but on a medical note, go out to dinner and have a few drinks to loosen up and not think about it, try to do this a couple times around your fertile period. Only have sex ever other to ever 2 days ( not everyday)  starting on the first day after your period and continue until the day before your period starts. Ive helped 3, of my friends conceive after trying for over a year
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1369359 tn?1314451884
Keep up with your cycle and get ovulation test. you normally emulate day 12-18 so try those days. every other day
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Relax and don't think about it. And have sex every other day because if he finishes inside you everyday his sperm count is a lot lower.  But the main thing is to relax and not stress over it.  It will happen when the time is right :)
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3744707 tn?1402187570
omg it took me an year and i honestly had s.e.x everyday no days missed and i used to lift my legs after we were done sometimes lol to keep the goody goody inside me
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Folic acid to prepare ur body! :-)
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2188958 tn?1346444891
@Balancedwifey that's cute and funny lol :)
It took us about a year and a half also. we werent trying the first year but we weren't preventing than the half a year we were i was very stressed out because it wasn't happening so i was about to give up when we got pregnant. enjoy yourselves and don't make it a job and have fun!! :) good luck
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It took us 2 yrs! He finally started trying more then me... holding my legs up afterwards ;)
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4250330 tn?1388621179
when you are on your period wait until mid of it and then have sex and let him nutt in you may sound nasty but thats how i did it
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4331946 tn?1355816857
Took me 3 years ._. Jus go at it but dont think about it ..it will happen
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2195822 tn?1341056911
Keep trying :) took me a year and.a half to.concieve and I have pcos. 1-2 years isn't.considered abnormal. Eat healthily, exercise, and Try to relax and don't think.about it as trying. Take the stress off. if in a while you are still struggling you can see a doc for advice. Good luck :)
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