Thanks guys! I was scared for that one!!
I didn't get them with my first. During labor you push with a completely different muscle than...your butt lol. I'd just say do your kegals everyday multiple times a day to build up that muscle. And remember don't push with your butt! :-) good luck!
When I had my first son I didn't know that I had them, the nurse told me...haha but yea I think so
Not everyone gets them..depends on the person
Idk but you are making me scared girl!!!