i never sure it coming

[mich2700]

hay everyone
just found out the fella i have been with for a long time had been making plans behind my back to get back with his ex. knowing we have been trying for a baby now i have found out im pregnant and he has moved back in with her, i caught them in bed at the weekend i didnt even go mad just walked out the room im so angery now. i cant understand how he could walk out on us like this  he doesnt wont anything to do with baby or me!!!! was i blinded by my so called happiness i cant work this out ? xx

[mich2700]

hi hun
men r selfish  and i found out he has lost his house back to the bank and he cant face  seeing me, he never lied to me but never corrected me when i thought things where ok, i dont no where he is  and  his phones have been off since  last tuesday? there is no way of finding out where he is either, i just wonna no he is ok ?  i am very worried about him hope he has not done something stupid xxxxx
hope u r ok ? xx

[confused170]

i really do hope your ok, its so hard i no but as everyone keeps saying to me, he obviously is not worth it and is very selfish, my mum was telling me that when her first relationship went down the drain the doctor told her that most men dont mature until the age of 35 and i can quite believe that! Xx

[mich2700]

thanks everyone
his ex dont no im pregnant but i have got a good mind to go over there and tell her, see how that b***h likes it. i no i have a bit of a temper thats whats stopping me going over there. and the end of the day there is a baby involed and i wonna look the bigger person by walking away. i never meet his parents do u think they have a right to no ?  i really didnt see this coming im still in shock  xxx

[brookemeares]

God doesnt throw you anything that you cannot handle. The baby was ment to come into this world, and God has great plans for the both of you. Just because it is going to be hard does not mean that it is not going to be worth it. If he doesnt want to be in his childs life that is his loss. You will be in my prayers. Just remember everything happeans for a reason.

[DarkRaven]

Thats not a man, but a coward.

[confused170]

im so sorry to hear this i know how it feels my partner just left me for drugs! After wanting a baby for a year i gave in and we started trying now im pregnant and he dont care feel lost cant sleep cant eat and cant stop crying x

[abturner]

i'm sorry things like this happen to good people!
this is a terrible man, how does his ex feel about your pregnancy? maybe you should go see her, i agree i think that by him having the control to do as he pleases he will try and float in and out making things hard. fight for your baby and never let the b*****d win. men like him dont deserve anything! good luck!

[mich2700]

he has been screaming at me most of the day and ye he will be stuck with child support do u no when i can get in touch with them about it?. i just cant beleave he has done this he wonted a baby not me  im made up now but he was the one pushing me for it.  now he wonts nothing to do with baby. my friend thinks he is going to play me now come and go out off our lifes as he pleases. i really never now what he had planned  i keep going over it in my head xxx

[julianovak]

Yeah, especially if someone does that to his babys momma,.... thats absolutly pathetic, what was he thinking when he said he wanted a baby.??? Thats nuts. He'll be stuck with child support. And in case he denys hes the father at birth have something of his, tooth brush/comb.... for the dna. some men are crazy they will tell you one day they love you, and then the next they act as if it was all a play....

[mich2700]

i really dont understand he wonted a baby more then me and now he has walked out and im left with our baby, my feeling for every where got really bad back ack and been sick allday im a right mess  i never saw it coming my gutted i so loved him
they say its a thin line between love and hate they ant wrong i hate him so much xx

[julianovak]

OH MY !!! I am so Sorry. Wow. That man of yours has no heart. Whatever you do dont take him back. he is so heartless, I can not even fathom what anger and sadness your feeling right now.