jaylen"s father

[jaylensmom10]

i am currently pregnant and need a lil help.now im certain but need reassurance of who my bby's father is.
i had sex about a week to 4 days before my period.then my period came on it was regular.heavy flow as usual.
then my boyfriend came home from prison.we also had uprotected sex the day after my period went off bt he was the only one i was with until the 16th of june.my lmp was 5/30/10 til 6/3/10.it always last five days but as long as my boyfriend was gone i was good as soon as he got home i became pregnant.bt my time evrytime i have went to the hospital was off by two weeks..meaning two weekd ahead.i honestly think i conceived after my lmp which means this would make my bby my boyfriends right?even if my time is wrong a little.my due date is march 4th and 7th.help!

[ashtray05]

i totally understnad ur situation.Its horrible not knowing! me and my now fionce, were split up for a few months at the begginning of the yea.We had both found other people but were still hooking up with each other. About a month after Valentines day i found out i was pregnant, we had gotten back together a few weeks prior to us finding out. We were sooo excited! We were trying to have a baby for the 3 years we were together. Me and the other man usually always used condoms, except a few times but he never went inside. The dates are kind of foggy now but all 3 of us were worried about it, i didnt let them kno i was tho.I told my fionce that i know its his and convinced him not to worry as well as the other man. I am scared a little bit for the baby to come out, becuase wut if he looks like the other man? I would be devasted and so would my man. DNA tests are expensive and i would rather not think about it. A father isnt just the sperm donor, its the man who is there when he has a bad dream or to feed him in the middle of night and take him to football games. At the end of the day, i kno who his father will be! i just hate not knowing who got me pregnant. So hang in there girl, it will all work out for the best! Best wshes

[Clysta]

If you ovulated then, yes. Keep in mind a due date is NOT exact and is only an estimate.

[jaylensmom10]

if my ovulation days were 05-9 to 05-16 and i had sex on the 16th does this mean i could have gotten pregnant on the 16th? if my due date is march 7th

[Clysta]

You can guess, but you'll never know for sure. Not all of them are too expensive. You'll have to check around to different places to see what they charge.

[jaylensmom10]

is there anyway i can knw when i was ovulating?ive never known that about my body

[DarkRaven]

DNA tests are kinda on the expensive side. if you order the test and the baby is your boyfriends, he pays for it, if not you pay

[jaylensmom10]

about how much does a dna test usually cost...ugh ihate this

[vacuumprincess]

AFTER THE ADDITIONAL INFO, i AGREE WITH THE OTHERS.  a DNA IS NECESSARY.

Sorry I didn't mean to be shouting...  didn't realize the capps were on.  

[spade22]

I agree with Annie.  Because you had sex with the other guy on the 16th the baby could certainly be his.  You will need DNA testing to determine who the father is in this case.

[AnnieBrooke]

When the doctor told you that you were 6 weeks 4 days pregnant, he meant 6 weeks 4 days from your first day of your last period.  It might have been around 4 weeks 4 days from conception, if you have a regular 28-day cycle, but it could have been a day or two later...women don't all ovulate on the clock.

If you are saying that you had sex with the other guy on the 16th of June, you're not off the hook just because there is a two-day difference between the 14th and the 16th of June.  You could have ovulated a day or two later than average and that would be enough.

I would think a DNA test in this situation is really the only fair thing to do.

[jaylensmom10]

ik.i had sex with my boyfriend the day after my period went off and we had sex all the month of june.bt the 16th i slipped up again.now wen i went to the doctor i was told i was 6 wks and 4 days that was on the 16th of july.the reason i know it cant be the other guys is because my calender says i gt pregnant between june 9th and 14th.im almost...well im certain it is his as well bt he has a doubt because of thee time my ultrasound says its two weeks two far along..can the time be wrong?and can i get pregnant then have a regular period ?i dont think so bt yes i had sex with the other guy about a week to 4 days befre my lmp.HELP.and thank you so much you are so very kind...im so ready to see my jaylen!

[vacuumprincess]

I'm not sure I understand everything correctly....
Most women are fertile around 2 weeks after the first day of your last peroid.  
you had sex with your boyfriend on the last day of your peroid??  You should NOT have been fertile then.  Did you continue to have sex with him until june 16th???  (with the boyfriend)  Even if you use protection, it is not 100% foolproof.  I think this is when you had gotten pregnant.   Making Jaylens father your boyfriend.

Was the other man you were with before May 30th???  If so, I do NOT think it is his.  
best wishes!!