just ranting

Question

So my fiance works grave yard shift so I'm home alone at night and I hate being alone at night. So I tried asking some friends to stay the nights with me so I wasn't alone. And every time they said they would but they either showed up with alcohol (and me and my fiance are under 21 so r my friends) which makes me uncomfortable cuz if a sheriff shows up ( cuz they r loud) I could get in trouble and possibly get my baby taken when hes born. And they usually end up ditching me. Or my other friend would say she will stay the high and never shows up. It hurts to think that no one wants to be around me...I'm alone most the time and asking for some company is impossible. Makes me want to cry:'( sorry had to rant some how cuz I dont want to worry my fiance:'(

steph_shoffner14 · Answer

I dont like going to my moms cuz everyone has a problem when I'm there cuz they have to smoke outside so it stresses me out so I just dont go a lot and Ic have to stay the night and there's no extra beds

Sian_Evs · Answer

Why don't you spend some time with your mum? I would be really lonely if it wasn't For her. My fiance works from 7-5 Mon-fri and then he goes straight to the gym so I don't see him until gone 9pm pretty much everyday. I would be lost without ny Mum and Dad

dreona92 · Answer

It's like that now my mom always said you want to know who your real friends are have kids and see who still is there and I truly believe that it seems easier to have friends that have kids already because they will understand what you are going through or be there for you cause pregnancy is lonely and emotional and you need people on your side I had a good support team with my first child but this pregnancy it's ok not like my first pregnancy every things going to be alright your get better and more dependable friends

steph_shoffner14 · Answer

I did that and then when he gets home I'm getting up and I'm still alone cuz he goes to bed or if I'm lucky hell stay up cuz hes not tired but he just players the ps3 so I'm always lonely:/

Ms_Classy · Answer

It's gone b ok this just shows you who ur real friends are bt before ur fiancee Goes to work try and do things that tire u out so once he's gone u sleep