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ladies don't be shy share!!!

Best sex position and how far along are you?  Only asking because i have no desire to have sex at all with the hubby I'm 28.6 weeks!!! I feel so bad not giving in and telling him no all time :-(
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1041303 tn?1421387341
I am 20 + 5 and I still can not give him oral lol. The last time a couple days ago I puked all over my bed. We usually just end up kind of in a scissor position or standing in the shower.

Pop rocks or ice are awesome :)
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Hmmm well I am on pelvic rest so its oral or hands that's all I can do.!!!
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I Wouldd Havee Too Sayy Doggyy , Orr Onn Topp .
Imm 18 Weekss 2 Dayss (:
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Our first we had a csection and then waiting like four weeks if that to have sex again lets just say it was amazing and we deffinitly needed the plan B after that time haha
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I am 22w 4d and we can still do every position as before because im not that big. But I like giving him oral and hands n knees on bed while he is behind. We have sex about every other day. And I enjoy it. (: how much longer until I have no sex drive? And im scared about not being about to have sex for, they say, 6 eeeks after babys born.. Because I love sex with my love!
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Sorry havnt replied for awhile but do guys prefer anal more to regular? He's literally sticking it where poop comes out haha lol but seriously what ifnits on his **** after I'd be soo embarassed!!!!
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Doggy style hurts me :( which is a bummer because on the nights I don't feel like it that would be the easiest way out lol definitely on top is the best position for us right now
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5094917 tn?1366986485
Yeah anal isn't that bad at all the more lube the more comfortable it is and my first time I thought I was goin to hate it but after a while I started to enjoy it a lot. I always say if I want it imma get it like kensleysmom said once you start heading down there or just touching him he will now. You can start kissing him him all over him lol
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5094917 tn?1366986485
I didnt like it at first but when you do its a lot easier and faster!
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4591205 tn?1410605174
im 24 weeks and we usually do it in the spooning position
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I still give it to my hubby but I can barely have sex this pregnancy it cramps up my pelvic area really bad and hurts no matter what position..doggy style, me on top, him on top, reverse cowgirl, me on end of bed him standing up, on a chair, they all hurt! Its so frustrating :/ I just wanna have an orgasm! (Tmi lol) can't wait to pop this baby out and give my man some good lovin! Ha
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4715985 tn?1371582997
Anal sex lol :) ive been with my husband for four years and we've been having vaginal and anal from the beginning. As much as i had to think about the anal once you do it a couple of times u get use to it. Just take it slow no matter what! We had anal beads at some point and he pulled to hard once and broke my butt! I swear i was in pain for months after. It took almost a year before i could take it again without much pain. We just tried anal with me on top and it was seriously the best way ive ever had it. I still love my old fashion vaginal sex but i would be lying if i said i didnt like anal. Makes my man happy makes me happy lol although we only do it lile once every two weeks since pregnancy likes to make me constipated all the time lol i would recommend for every women to go in a sex shop with there guy! It is so much fun to look at all the crazy n fun stuff they have. And u never know what youll come out with! I bought a 250$ vibrator and its amazing! We went often before getting preggo probably got like over 1000$ worth of stuff. Now all the money goes towards baby but its nice to treat yourself on occation.

Dont be shy and go in. The people inside that work there are always so nice and will more then gladly help you :) even if its just for a good laugh.
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4838161 tn?1369531346
Lol yeah lots of lube and go slow. It can be fun :)
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Okay.now this is one that's TMI.... he asked to try it yah a different hole....lots of lube I'm guessing????? All I can think of is ow and gross!!!
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Him standing, me on my knees on a chair backwards.. let him get u from behind it feels great im only 12 weeks but im trying to get used to some new positions before i get big then it wont be such a big change
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Lots of oral for him and hands on for me :p but doggy works and im a fan of reverse cowgirl now :) everything is much more sensitive that any way is great for me :p and im almost 37 weeks :)
I was embarrassed the night before last though cuz i was on top and had been getting a lot of nipple play and all of a sudden my husband goes you're sticky :' my boobs have started kicking in :) I almost lost the mood but my husband calls me sexy and keeps going so i guess my sex life isnt going anywhere for.the moment :p  
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5268435 tn?1367082384
Majority of the time I just start s u c k i n g and he knows what time it is.
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5002615 tn?1366014009
Okay how do you guys get it started? Im shy to ask him for it /.\ but I've been feeling sexually frustrated
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4920659 tn?1371061785
At the minute although my belly is quite big i actually like him on top taking it slow (or sometimes not) lol but also on our side feels great when i'm abit sore as it doesn't go too deep & its gentle & sweet :-) i'm 17+1 but people assume i'm further slong from the size of my bump haha xx
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I guess I'm not that far along to relate!! LOL i say i cnt wait to get that far along but i love sex N oral so ill tak my time gettin there all yu ladies are almost due must b exciting!! Congratulations ladies
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5268435 tn?1367082384
@mrscookii I have a serious mental block about spitting on it. I just cant bring myself to do it. I have to get over it. Maybe when i can have some liquid courage ill do it.
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Doggystyle 26+4
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I haven't been able to get on top for a few weeks cause I get bad pains in my belly if I do and I'm 36 weeks. It's usually doggy or him on top as long as he doesn't press to hard on my bump. Trying to have it as much as possible cause I really wish I didn't have to give it up lol
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Some days all I want is sex others I don't even want my husband to touch me 28w5d here & I love getting oral (tmi , I don't cAre) from my husband but I feel uncomfortable with my big belly :-/
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