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ladies. vent!

holy moly! it really appears some ladies on here are not supportive at all they bash instead..i thought this was a support group through our pregnancies?
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I've seen that too ...
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6333896 tn?1387918422
u think this is bad?? try joining a birth club on babycenter..  they are some hardh *******
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lol id.rather not lol. i think its pretty ridiculous lol
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Its crazy. I always second guess posting a question on here 99% of the time just because i dont want any of these ladies to judge or bash me and its sad that we all joined this forum for support from someone who could relate to our situations but instead you get smarta** responses that ate truly hateful.
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Are^
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5946774 tn?1389187935
I hate it when people are rude and then they're like I wasn't trying to be rude. There's a fine line in between being honest and being rude and a lot of people don't know where it starts or ends.
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5554398 tn?1373571843
The baby bump app has some pretty nice & supportive women on it
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Ive also noticed that its the "popular" ladies who do it the most. And teregarcalva your right, they know they are being rude but when someone calls them out on it they play innocent, they also know they are crossing that line of being honest or just plain rude but they dont care. I bet that they wouldnt like it so much if someone was just flat out rude to them when they had a serious question. Sorry so long but this has gotten.under my skin for some time now, so i just never post anything anymore.
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5946774 tn?1389187935
Then they try to tell people that they didn't mean it like that and that the other person took it wrong because of their hormones!? Seriously!! I have reaf things that make me want to shake people or scream and stuff I won't deny that but I'm not gonna go be a B**** about it. Being rude doesn't help anyone there's other ways to get stuff across just act like an adult and not some highschool girl.
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6265786 tn?1386113658
your gona get it no matter what. its life. people are like that every where facebook, twitter other pregnancy apps. its just about having a thick skin people are going to say hurtful things. I havnt experienced it. people are entitled to their opinions on here and that's the whole point. but the bashing thing I havnt seen it. I've seen people with strong opinions but I wouldn't say bashing. im still gona post questions. regardless not everone is nasty and its the good people on here who's advice you listen too..and ignore the negatives. :)))
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2170635 tn?1357911686
Yes they really are some mean ladys in here I usto love coming here with my first back in 012 felt so much nicer and safer back then. Now im just afraid to putting anything on here to just get yelled at for something I never did or someone I never talked to :/
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I find your input funny here bfranz considering I've seen you being rude to various people, myself included.

Best thing to do is just ignore people stirring up drama - don't feed the trolls.
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