Help!!!!

[Lovinamir]

No negative comments... Keep your negative comments to yourself. I wouldn't judge nobody on their situation so don't judge me.

Me and My son father fell off last year in May. And decided that we was gone take a break from being with one another.  I started talking to another guy end up having sex with him on 09/09 it was just that one time. My son father and I then had sex on 09/23. I find out I was pregnant around Nov. The doctor told me I conceived my child that I'm pregnant with now on the 09/30. Is it the 1st or 2nd

[RockRose]

lovinamir,  the 40 weeks is confusing.    Forty weeks is calculated from the first day of your last regular period,  not from the day you conceived,  which would be 2 weeks later than your LMP.

That comes from the days when there was no real better way to date a pregnancy.  

So,  although you don't have regular periods,  your doc would still count Sept. 30 as the day your period should have been,  if you conceived on Oct. 14,  making your due date July 7.

I know it's confusing.  But for you,  it's good news.  If your doc is right that your due date is July 7,  you conceived more than month after having sex with that other guy.

[maw4389]

If you really want to know, get a DNA test done.

[Lovinamir]

I understand where you coming from. But I honestly think it may be the same baby father. Only because I conceived a week later. I had sex with him 09/23 & supposedly conceived on 09/30.  And when I counted the days it added up to him ( 40 Weeks ).

[ftmmom221]

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[ftmmom221]

So that increases the chances even more I say second guy. I wouldn't kill myself calculating anything because that isn't accurate either. Your doc might not even he accurate it's all a guesstimate

[Lovinamir]

Yes I used a condom with 09/09. But not with my son father.

[ftmmom221]

Specially if you are irregular I don't think u can get a definite answer. Did u use a condom with either of them?

[RockRose]

You might want to ask her for more clarification,  lovinamir.

I don't know why a doc would say you conceived on Sept. 30 and give you a due date of July 7.

That's two weeks too long.

In the morning just call the nurse and get clarification - somehow there's a misunderstanding here.

On the other hand,  even if you DID conceive on Sept. 30,  that rules Mr. Sept. 9 out.

I think she misspoke,  and meant to say your LMP was Sept. 30.

[Lovinamir]

She said I conceived my baby on Sept 30... I'm irregular and don't have periods

[RockRose]

When you plug July 7 into a calculator,  you get Oct. 14 as your most likely conception date.

Did your doc mean that Sept. 30 was the first day of your last regular menstrual period?

Whoever you had sex with around Oct. 14 is the dad.

[Lovinamir]

My due date is July 7

[RockRose]

It's a little unlikely to be either date - did you have sex with anyone closer to the 30th?  Do you have a due date?

[1stTimeeMommy23]

Sounds to me like the 2nd