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Okay so recently I went to the doctor due to bleeding and he said it looks like I had a mc which im not doubting...but this will be my second im beginning to think there is no hope for me. I really want a baby and u can't seem to hold them for over 7 weeks I lost my first one in april at 7+3 and this one would be 6+6...is there something im supposed to be doing during the first 6time weeks that maybe im not? Or is my body just not wanting this to happen for me? My mom said I should just look at it as at least I can get pregnant. But I want to at least be able to carry a baby to where I will one day ne able to hold it and care for it and be the mother I want to be.
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Thank you. I'm not even sure if the baby im pregnant with now is an actual mc but they looked for it yesterday and couldn't find the baby. But they did blood work and I go in again today for blood work. But with all the blood I have lost lately I don't doubt it. Its just weird cause I still feel pregnant.
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3114635 tn?1354636142
Im so sorry that you have had to go through this twice!! You shouldn't be worried sadly it just happens Your time will come, you just need to give it time.
I lost my first in April too. It was never a consilation prize when I was told at least I can conceive because I still lost my baby especially after it took so long. I just wanna let you know it will happen and it is worth all the heartache I'm now nearly 17 weeks pregnant again and it's going well.

I'd speak to your Dr about looking into this. Were I live they won't do look at this unless you lose 3 but theres no harm in asking. All the luck in the world!!
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2133163 tn?1350518235
I'm so sorry! I thought the same thing about me. I had two mcs and I always thought why me. But I'm currently 32 weeks with a healthy baby boy and believe me it hasn't actually hit me yet. Just be patient and pray. The doctors tested me for everything to see why I was having miscarriages but nothing. If they wanna test you to see why then let them so you'll know what it is. Good luck to you!
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