Aa
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this app reminds me of like a pregnant version of fb lol.
lol i lost my first baby at 22 weeks and i not once made pregnant girls feel bad that they were getting tired of being pregnant or making sad faces on girls posts about being happy with their ultrasounds, im jst saying why be a downer on other peoples happiness b
Nobody is saying anything rude. Nor did I say not to get help. I stated my personal opinion that when I went through what I did I reached out, but never thought to do so around other currently pregnant women bc the fear or sadness alone can do terrible things to both them and baby. And I know she hasnt reached out to the miscarriage community, im sure they can help her more there WITH THAT than a bunch of early-term FTMs, and also encouraged still speaking to her friends on here. Anyway, its not meant to be rude, I can relate to a late term miscarriage but I want her to get help from people who understand it and are ready to talk about it, not upset mommas who dont want to think about it. Its not specifically her anyway, theres been tons of miscarriage posts in here, and now paranormal and religion questions that get answers but women who are scared to take a test get ran out of here and constantly mocked.
Wow reading this really shows me how disgusting and unsupportive some people can be, I hope nothing happens to your baby's and you have these kind of remarks said to you!
not to sound "insensative" bt i kind of agree, moms here are all excited about being pregnant then theres you kind of being a downer on their posts.
Have you tried the niscarriage group? I dont think many first time mothers can help with what you went through and when they come here and read a post not about pregnancy but miscarriage it makes them turn and leave, even ftms that have been here for a while. And theres also private messaging friends on this website. I think its unfair to report "am I pregnant" posts and then see 55 comments on an update about relationships and emotions and those not be reported and put in the proper group. I dont care if you help answer questions. Moms in other websites like yahoo answers and babycenter stay to specifically answer questions too, thats nbd.
I went into preterm labor a week ago and lost both my sons.. and to this day still on this app. I still come on here to help others and also because I need emotional support for what I have gone through. I have grown close with some of the laddies on here. What's the big issue for some who still stay on here?
Haha I like watching Maury when they do the baby daddy segments. "These 20 guys...and none of them are the baby daddy"
exactly, why stay on here after youre done being pregnant. i jst find all the baby daddy drama posts amusing lol.
Ever since a week and half or so ago yeah it isnt an app to answer current pregnant womens questions about what is happening or what to expect. It wasnt like this when I first joined and if it wasnt for the fact I know I can answer some questions when others in my opinion misuse the app and ignore the needs of the others then I would delete it. Ive already decided after I share my labor story then im deleting this app. It is a PREGNANCY forum, I dont see the point in keeping it after. I have friends and family to help with after birth, and anything NOT pregnancy related has its own forum. Too many moms are leaving bc now its updated with nothing but sadness and things not related to pregnancy. Its a shame.
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