my husband is shy in bed

Question

It started during my 2nd trimester...he doesnt seem to want sex anymore. He seems afraid he will hurt the baby or me even though doctor has told us its safe for us.  Ive never felt better and now would be the best time for a bit more romance before 3rd trimester and then the actual birth and late nights with baby come along. I don't want to ask him because that just kills the mood for me. Ive spoken to him about it...still no real change. I think I still look good...trying not to think insecure thoughts.

kandy_2187 · Answer

I feel the same. Ever since the kicking started he is weirded out and feels like its a threesome. I just want to be close and when i get horny i don't think i should have to "take care of it". He should be taking care of me.

celi_p · Answer

You know I always see people have these posts and then I see lady like "oh it's the opposite for me he always wants me" you know that doesn't help. If anything it make people feel worse. I know it makes me feel worse

susamor · Answer

Lol! @proudFTMTeTe

k, I'll try that :) @sweetMelissa92

SweetMelissa92 · Answer

Yes hun dont have any insecure thoughts it aint about that i would just really try n basically use sum seducing methods and just let Him know that You are needing him intimatly he wont beable to resist once You start getting seductive with Him

proudFTMTeTe · Answer

No ur lucky Hun lol

susamor · Answer

I'm sure its just my hormones making me want it more now.. but I feel like its a connection thing also. And I would just feel bad about myself if I'm always asking/initiating. I guess I should just be happy that my sex drive hasnt gone out the window. You ladies are lucky your man wants you all! :)

proudFTMTeTe · Answer

,My bf wants it everyday n I'm huge  but I just don't b in the mood I give him some once maybe twice a week he takes wat he can get n doesn't complain lol but he has been talking about once I drop there's no in my vocabulary he already planning for baby #2 lol just try starting it with ur bf

mamicristal · Answer

just suvk his pennis me n my man get it in since day one even now that i am big and huge

Blopez91 · Answer

Omg I know who gets us girls some wsnt it some not i have not been feeling in the mood and he is always wanting to touch me and stuff im just not feeling it its just once in a blue moin I get in to it but still try to satisfy him

Chemie07 · Answer

Thats like the complete opposite for me. My boyfriend was always wanting sex and i just wasnt into it. I didnt even want him touching me for a long time.