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Im 23rd week now .. not eve  one of my family members knows it. How i wanna tell my mum n his mum? Any idea
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Just tell them I think they will figure it out when you go into labor and start pushing.
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Just tell them I think they will figure it out when you go into labor and start pushing.
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The problem here is that i've got a big brother and he is so strict and likes to beat me ... how am i gg to go through this n solve it ? I need an advice please..
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If your brother likes to beat you (which is so wrong on so many different levels- you should report this), then it's especially important that they know that you're pregnant. Hitting anyone should never be okay, but hitting a pregnant woman? Who in their right mind would ever consider that?!
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Okay , what if he were to beat my fiance ? Cos mayb he didn't beat me up since he knows im pregnant . But what are you gonna do if he beat up ur own fiance? Any advice?? ):
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Call the police.
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Call the police is exactly right...^
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Thank u very much guys , for the idea
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I think its your  life so why should your siblings get a say so your family seems to be toxic so maybe explain to his mom first the situation maybe they can offer a safe environment but also seek help..you using mum lets me know you are from the usa so laws and beliefs are different  but  I would hate to see you post later on that you had a miscarriage  due to him beating you
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*are not from
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Yes ,i am not from usa.. am asia .. due to law i can get away , cuase im above 16..hope everything goes well .. im gonna pray hard to whatever that is coming ..i hope it won't turn that way till miscarriage , cause i love my fiance n child so much ..
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It's about you and your baby. Let your family know it's not healthy and safe if they don't know your pregnant. You don't wamt to go threw this alone and you don't want to go into labor and yout family have no clue what's going on
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Yup , im gonna tell them soon .. but whom should i approach first ? My fiance's mum or my mum ..?
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Talk to your fiancé and see who you guys would feel more comfortable telling first. Me and my boyfriend told his mom first cause we knew she whould be excited and we told my mom the next day because we weren't sure how she was going to react but both were okay with it. I couldn't keep a secret that big from them for even a week it would just have been wrong them not knowing any longer then i did. I found out i was pregnant on a Monday night and by Wednesday both our familes knew. Goodluck
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