no effort

[xcassix]

I give my bd a chance to feel the baby kick and to talk about everything but I get blown off. He seems uninterested in that aspect of my life. We have grown apart already and ive been depressed. He stays out late doing whatever while im stuck at home. I moved almost 2 hours away from my family and friends to be with him. I feel like im giving more than receiving in this relationship :/

[pregoRita]

Maybe hes scared

[ashlii00]

id just make it sound serious enough for him tosit downnn take u serioisly and lay it all out on table. u need to know whats goin on. its not fair on u and baby.

[xcassix]

His first also and he is 25. So I expected him to be thrilled but not the case.

[ftm502]

^sorry typing fast lol

[ftm502]

Yeah I understand. Is he young? If y poo u don't mind me asking. Maybe its a maturity thing. Also I noticed u said its your first. Doeshe aalready have children cayse msybe he's just not as thrilled or fascinated with you all's little miracle because he's experienced it all before. My friend just had her first and its her bd's third and he was totally not interested in her pregnancy, by he's a good dad now that the baby is here.

[xcassix]

I try but he always reverts back to his old ways. Its my first child so I really want him to be involved more

[ftm502]

Awwh sorry. He's being a jerk! Have you talked to him and let him know exactly how you feel? And how.important stuff like this is to you?