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1959722 tn?1338778115

oh my god

Oh my god. I just can't do this with him anymore. I work and he doesn't and we get in arguments and he wants to talk about how he waits on me hand and foot because I come home from being on my feet eight hours and my feet and back are swollen and I ask him to get me something to drink and some tylenol. I am so sick of him acting like I'm a burden. Meanwhile I buy his cigarettes he refuses to have sex with me he makes me cry almost everyday.. I am truly starting to hate him
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Uh, leave him
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:( I'm so sorry to hear you're having such awful issues. Nobody deserves a jerk like that.
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1794093 tn?1357930759
well said Stacey10! agreed!
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1806883 tn?1458321004
he's using you and your convientant, why would he want to find a job when your taking care of him, boot him out... he should be waiting on your hand and foot as soon as you get in the door, your the bread winner, your pregnant, he should have dinner waiting, a bathe ready for you to walk straight into, thats that !!
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you deserve so much better than that! all the tears and stress he is putting on you is also the way your baby will be feeling it sounds to me like he thinks he can say what he wants to you get what he wants you shouldnt have to be the one thats working and as for the smoking if he cant fund the habit then he shouldnt do it x
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2003882 tn?1327604426
hun honestly no one deserves a guy like that he sounds like a real jerk
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1967331 tn?1327880044
Awww im sorry to hear you are having trouble.... I had that issue with my childrens "father" i worked all day and still had to come home to take care of the alomost 3yo by myself... He did nothing to help me... So we split up. Ive always been the type to take care of myself but when u live with me and we have a child and one on the way and you cant help me do simple things with your child and around the house that you lay up in all day..... Its time for you to go... I was doing everything by myself so there no need for him to be around..... It can be difficult but juat hang in there and do what you need to do for you and if he cant help out talk to him about it and let him kno he needs to help or move on.....
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Oh hun...I'm sorry your having to deal with that!! :-(  I feel bad for ya..why isn't he working?? Is he looking for work??
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