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please help me out

im 18 and i cant get pregnant, not that im trying i just know i havent got pregnant and me and my boyfriend lives together and its been three years of unprotected sex and i never got pregnant i was told by my obgyn that my pap smear was normal and that ill have kids and the lining of my stomach was good but how can she not see the problem ?  or should i feel embaressed about it because of my age ?
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There are also ways u could try without askin ur doctor or ur boyfriend does he wear regular men underwear or boxers does he wear tight pants. Does he do drugs or smoke or drink all those things can lower a mans sperm count. At least that is what I have been told by my doctor
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i absulotly believe in the advise that has been giving to me im so thankful for this website and the honest ppl who want to help. i will try everything that ive learned even the part about knowing who you really want to spend your life with because im sertain theres no turning back. much llove and happiness.
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Thanks I try to give good advice just sometimes I wish I could take my own lol
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I have to agree with you we just dont get to choose! I was married for 6 yrs i tried everything and i mean EVERYTHING under the sun to get pg! i took herbals i temped i charted prolly even stood on my head a few times LOL and nothing ever worked!! I was convinced i was sterile no shot in the world at gettng pg so i didnt think about B/C when i met my now BF and bam 1 month later i turned up PG!! I was completly in shock if you see the pics of me when i was testing its pretty funny!!

Sherlin..-Ravn. does have good advice and if youre interested in taking herbals to try and get pg go ahead and start researching it and ask any of the ladies here theres plenty of us who have tried and have info and experiences with them!
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it could just as easily be bad timing of ovulation and sex. some women have a very small window of opportunity. try tracking your period and ovulation really closely for a few months, and have sex on not just your ovulation date but a few days before and after just in case your a little off.
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it could just as easily be bad timing of ovulation and sex. some women have a very small window of opportunity. try tracking your period and ovulation really closely for a few months, and have sex on not just your ovulation date but a few days before and after just in case your a little off.
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it could just as easily be bad timing of ovulation and sex. some women have a very small window of opportunity. try tracking your period and ovulation really closely for a few months, and have sex on not just your ovulation date but a few days before and after just in case your a little off.
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Nope I wasn't taking anything I was dead set on me not being able to get pregnant. But then it happened and then again and from then on I just believed it was god who chose my childrens fathers for me. I understand where your coming from on asking your doc. Do you think maybe you would be more comfortable with a female doctor. I know I was I switched my doctor after my first child I just felt uncomfortable and felt like I couldn't ask him anything. I switched to a female doctor and she has been with me for my other 2 pregnancies and I love her I can ask her anything and she doesn't judge me or anything she is very open with me.
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but was you taking the prenatal pills or it was all up to the almighty ? and i feel even more embaressed asking him can he be the reason im not getting pregnant i guess it doesnt get easy jst harder:(
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Also don't be shy I'm pretty sure doctors here a lot worse things then that and its not even bad you just would like to have a baby and would like to know the issue.
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It could change as a man gets older they can loose sperm count. Yea I never believed it about god picking but when I got prego with my first son and then we didn't last but even though we didn't he is def a great father. After we split up I had a few other boyfriends which I had unprotected sex with never got pregnant met my husband and I know this sounds bad but was pregnant within the next month now I'm married to him and have 2 children by him. I know it sounds weird but I really do think god plans you who have children with.
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no its not him he has three kids so im pretty sure his soliders are marching fine but that makes me wonder about how you get to pic, i guess i never got to see it like that, your right but i dont know my problem yet because i feel so embaressed about asking huhhhh i just wish i didnt feel so shy to ask
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Personally i felt the same way before I got pregnant with my first child I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend for 2 years and never got pregnant. Luckily I didn't becuz we didn't work out got with my sons father and was pregnant within 6 months. Personally I feel god chooses when and who u are goin to have a baby with. Has your boyfriend been checked maybe its something with him and not you.
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Yea I'm taken one a day prenatal. I like them n it was only 25$ for a month n a half supply
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well i havent took anything because im so embaressed to ask specialist about my problem i feel like they would tell me not to worry im young,,,wait,, or something worst but can i buy those pills over counter?
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Have u tried taking Prenatal vitamins? Because I also couldn't get pregnant it took me almost 6 months and my doctor recommended me to take those vitamins and I did. And I got pregnant now im 34 weeks (:
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