please take the time to read and comment:(

[jocey_xoxo]

Im 35 weeks and 2 days pregnant today my boyfriend was suppose to come home to take the car seat and stroller out the box he didnt come home until 10:30 hes super drunk and has a different change of clothes in his backpack and wont tell me why he took it with him and laughs in my face I started getting angry and checked his phone and said if he didnt tell me who he was with and where I would call his friends and ask and he started calling me horrible disgusting names saying ofcourse I wanna talk to his friend im  goe im this im only good at sucking d... and I got mad and threw his phone at him he grabbed me by my hair pushed me and started repeatedly hitting nd banging my head nd got mad  because I was crying and spit in my face he started work at 12 which he went to super drunk and when he left I found condoms in his backpack and when I asked why he started calling me a hoe saying im dumb...my point is im in tears its 12:30 am and I just really wish I could leave

[Faith_Sarai]

If you ever want to get out your local welfare office could help. When you apply they ask if you need housing and you can get a monthly stipend foods stamps and WIC. I just wordy ifhe comes home drunk after the baby and sshakes or hits the baby because he/she is crying

[martaboo18]

Hun u need to man up and get out of there ur putting yourself and that baby in harm's way. Even though ur.not bleeding that baby is still suffering from.up stressing and that can cause mental and physical harm to.it. apparently he dosenr want to be with u or he wouldn't be cheating u need to get ur self our of there and call ur step dad to ask him to stay there. U have to do wht u have to in order to.keep that child safe.because it isn't just u anymore. It's not worth being with someone who is physically and mentally abusive.

[mommyinfebruary]

I personally just went thru this. Not the condom n clothes but he was on date sites and hiding messages n stuff and when I would confront him he would smack the back of my head and call me names then I would cry and he would get a bigger rise off that and bash my head on the ground or whatever he could. Then I'd cover myself n he'd pull my hands off n say if u didn't ask stupid questions I wouldn't have to get so mad then smack me again so then I'd fight to get away n he'd say fight me like a man or act like one get hit like one n treated liked one. (I agree if a woman tries to randomly start beating on a guy hard then he has a right to fight back but not how my bf n urs makes it sound) I have been with him 3 years n in the first year we had major issues n now my family has had enough hearing about it if I'm staying with him so I don't have somewhere else to go. People say leave but it's not that easy and it's hard to call cops on someone u know does have a better side n u love. Things between us are a lot better. I just slowly made it seem like I wasn't interested in him as much n didn't fight his arguments and with in a couple days he was begging for me to forgive him and that he loved me n bla bla and now we r good. So just give urself n him space n it might work out. But def figure out the cheating that's rude n nasty.

[JulieKuhnert]

Supposed to say "My child, no matter their age is getting beat on"

[JulieKuhnert]

I'm sorry, but your mom needs to "man" up and tell her husband to stuff it.  My child, miso matter their age is getting best in, you better bet they will be able to come stay with me. I don't care if you don't have a good relationship with your step father, your mom needs to step up to her husband and say "My daughter is pregnant, she's being abused, if she isn't welcome in this house, neither am I". I honestly can't believe she'd turn her daughter and grandchild away, smh. Go to the cops, have his butt arrested and thrown in jail. There is absolutely no excuse for what he did, you deserve so much better. Protect yourself and that child.

[bubzbeauty29]

Leave now imagine what he could've caused, u couldl loose the baby and he doesn't care

[Lennyxo]

I agree. If you can just find any other place to go atleast for a day or so please do so. It will make him realize that you won't put up with his **** once he gets home. Take your stuff atleast. Don't give him the thought that he can mistreat you, cheat on you , put his hands on you and your going to put up with it. It's true think bout your little one that's your main priority now.

[becca87C]

He treats you that way because he figures you won't leave because you have no where else to go. Where in California are you?

[rachaelbutsch]

Personally I think you should report him hitting a pregnant women after 24 weeks is by law attempt of murder and him being drunk is no excuse just cause your drunk doesn't mean the word no or I'm sorry leave the vocab... if you can't find a safe placeto idk the living ssituation but I would change the locks or get a hotel room something and not tella soul.. but that could make him more mad so if you choose to find a safe place for the night take everything that means something to you and all your baby's stuff everything of the baby's cause if he gets mad enough hell ruin them ... and I agree with above comment earlier he had clothes and condoms sweetie he more than likely cheated and I'm so sorry but you deserve much better...

[jocey_xoxo]

Baby is fine and moving no bleeding but whenever he makes me stress I alwas feel dizzy and throw up:( and I wish I would take a warm shower but its almost 1 am and its raining and super cold(I get sick easily)

[Lala0712]

You are never stuck and never think that because you will believe it and you will stay long past when you should have left.  If you can't take anymore then you call the cops and you go to a shelter for women and they can help you find a house for just you and your child

[jocey_xoxo]

I know im not blind to the fact that hes with someone else it just annoys me of.how he accuses me and I dont know my.godmother and im not close to my family:( only my.mom but its my step dads house not hers so I just cant go:( its good that he works all night but when he comes back I just dont want to.see him at all he says if I act like a guy hes gunna treat me like one nd thats why he hit me

[Lala0712]

You need to know you have a baby coming and that child's safety needs to be put above all else. With that being said if he was acting defensive then I would not be surprised if he was cheating and that is not your fault he screwed up so you are not the one that needs to be hit. Lastly please watch your child and if you start to have any bleeding out of the ordinary or pain go in right away for your baby.

[jocey_xoxo]

I called my mom asking if I could go to her house and she said I need to ask my step dad (we dont have a great relationship) so I decided against it nd when my boyfriend heard me talking on the phone he laughed and said not my.fault they dont want u either:( he couldn't even answer why he had another pair of clothes and condoms he also started kicking the bed to move me because he couldnt find his work shoes...I have dealt with so much from him and now im stuck

[brittanyhinch]

I had to spend the night at my god mothers once when I had an argument with my daughters father.... so to other comments,  that would help as well,  if you can get away for the night,  but make sure it's with someone that can defend you in case he decides to get mad again and accuse you of doing something else

[kyana_and_justin]

In my opinion...these things aren't good for you or your baby...don't let him hurt you...think about your baby not to mention yourself...you dont need anyone but your baby.(this is how I personally feel I'm not telling you to feel this way)

[brittanyhinch]

One, It's kind of obvious what he's doing.. I don't mean to hurt any feelings,  but it seems pretty obvious to me, he was with another girl.  Two, a man should NEVER hit a woman,  or do what you said he did.  That is just horrible. If this happens regularly,  or it happens again,  you should get help, whether it be from family or friends, or even law enforcement.  I Wouldn't want a guy I was with to do that to me,  and have a chance of hurting my child... it's just,.. wrong.  I'm sorry for what happened.  Maybe try and take a warm bath and relax for a little bit.  It always helps me when I have an anxiety/panic attack, or if someone yells at me. . I know it's not the same,  but maybe it will help?  It helps me,  especially if I've been crying,  I just get in the bath...

[kyana_and_justin]

If my bf called me names or tried hurting me especially if he spit in NY face...I'd leave him...you may love him...but jeez...these things worry me for anyone...be careful.

[Lala0712]

I agree^^, I feel like if you have somewhere to go for the night you should maybe a little break is best.  I do not believe it is okay for what he did to you but I also understand we women will put up with alot before leaving someone we love so I won't say leave him because that's completely your choice but you should let him know what he did is not ok.

[becca87C]

I would say leave and put his *** in jail...hitting you while pregnant is a huge no-no, he could have killed your baby, also spitting in your face can possibly count as an offensive also...you don't want someone like that around your baby. Leave and never go back.

[Lennyxo]

Omg that's horrible. I'm so sorry about that . I would feel so angry , hurt and lost... I can't say I'm sorry enough .. I hope you can relax and maybe if you can go to your parents house you should. He shouldn't have condoms for any reason he might of been drunk and wasn't thinking straight to what he was saying or doing but I think he still knew what was going on and shouldn't have disrespected you that way ...