pregnant and husband pist

[thickm]

so i had a miscarriage in july and had a d&c...had normal period in august and september! started nuvaring right after d&c! well low and behold....i think i am pregnant again!!! i took my nuvaring out on the 14th and didnt start my period, sick as all get out today! so i bought a test and it was positive! i freaked out and when i told my husband he got pist! he wont even talk to me..........right now is the worst time to get pregnant, my husband quit is job to go to school full time and how this!! i understand hes not happy but to me a baby is a blessing to anyone whos able to get pregnant!!!

[Riot_Queen]

Well you better let him know that you sure as h e l l didn't get pregnant by yourself!!
He helped, it's half his fault, tell him to get over it and grow up!

[JoyRenee]

I'm glad to hear he's come around!!!

[Caddy1992]

could be worse,,,
I'm 17 and 22 weeks pregnant on wednesday and my boyfriend doesn't want the child.
you'll pull through and things will work out great just keep a smile on hunny

[ExtraGlamorous]

YOUR LUCKY PLZ BE HAPPY CAUSE IM TRYING AND HAVENT BEEN ABLE TO GET PREGNANT CONGRADS HUN DONT WORRY YOULL MAKE IT

[thickm]

the miscarriage was hard for both of us but we managed and to get pregnant so soon after is a shock to both of us but after a night of hanging out with the boys, he came home a little better! we talked about it and he said that things happen for a reason and that we will manage. and that god will bless us with a healthy beautiful baby! he told me to take my prenatal vitamins (that i still have refills on from my last pregnancy) and to wait a few months to see the dr, i convinced him that i would wait about 2-3 weeks but no more then that!! when i go in my dr always does an ultrasoun on the 1st visit so when we go i want to see something, hopefully a heart beat!! wish us well and keep us in yalls prayers!

[selaiwa]

First of all, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Men are considered the" providers" and I'll bet he is just scared that he won't be able to as well as he wants to. Just try to reassure him that things happen for a reason.God works in mysterious ways.He needs to realize that you just had a miscarriage and are lucky to be given another chance so soon. Just enjoy your pregnancy and give him a big hug!

[LosingMyMindInGA]

I agree with Joy....I'm sure he will come around, he just needs time to process everythign.  

[JoyRenee]

First, he's probably scared and just lashing out at you. Scared that you'll miscarry, scared because he quit his job and needs to support you and now a baby, etc.

Give him time! He'll come around. He needs to process this.

[blueeyedtabbycat]

congrats! And tell your DH that it takes two. He will come around. It was sounds like a gift to me:-)