problems

[jolayla]

Me and my boyfriend have been doing so well. I'm 16weeks pregnant and today I had brown discharge it was old.blood. well I was freaking out so my mom told me to go to the er just to make sure everythig is okay because I did have a m/c at 16weeks June 12 2014. Well I tried calling my boyfriend he was at work I called text him a lot and nothing so I called his boss and.finally got ahold of him Well I went to the er cause I was scared everything was fine my baby had a heart beat of 150 and cervix was closed. Well he was being a **** the whole time I was at the er becAuse he thought I didn't need to go.well I get home and.see a beer and got mad so we started fighting he left at 9:30 said he'd be back in an hour its now 11:30 and still. not home I'm so mad.

[candiceispreggers]

Still not home? Does he drink often? How did he react when you first told him you were pregnant? You can probably only try your best to talk to him when he's not drinking

[jolayla]

Right I know but when he drinks there is no talking to him.. I'm just so hurt he left and still isn't home. I feel as though We don't matter and I don't wAnt to be a single mom my mom was And.my dad wasn't in my life I want our family.

[candiceispreggers]

Men just dont understand how delicate and emotional the situation is sometimes. That's why having children is up to the women lol in the end it doesn't matter what anyone thinks you have to look out for you and your baby. Try not to be overly paranoid many women bleed during pregnancy. My grandma had her full on period when she was pregnant don't worry so much sweetheart but you were right for making sure everything was right with your little one there's no price greater then a baby's life. Try to explain how you feel to your man. He needs to support you just as much as you support him. You didn't make this baby by yourself lol