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4419530 tn?1368475773

question for FTM's

What is your biggest fear about having/raising your child?

mine is I don't want my child resenting me later on in life because I can't provide him/her with the perfect life. (money wise)
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Money for sure. I just want to be a good mom and never have to worry about not having wnough money for my child
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money.
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4402502 tn?1355342665
My worst fear is not being there for my child. I'd rather struggle for money then be working all the time so I could buy them things. I just want to be there the most I can in my child's life.
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I'm terrified of bringing my little man into the society we live in now.... I want to shelter my baby but that will be more devastating
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Your kids can have a perfect life without lots of money just you being there for them and loving them is enough :-)! I was bought up with not alot so I still don't expect alot and I have a great relationship with my dad (he raised 6 of us on his own). I don't have alot of money but my kids get everything they need and are such happy kids that love there mam :-D that's all I could ask for!!
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I'm also terrified about raising them in today's society. Kids can't even go to an elementary school these days without us having to worry about shootings. Nowadays we go to amusement parks and half the kids are on leashes so people don't kidnap them. Leaving them with a babysitter is terrifying because you don't know whether they're abusing your kid or what. It's just sickening...and then when they get to the teenage stage, they don't understand that you're trying to protect them, not keep them from having fun with their friends and it just *****..
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not having his father in his life thats what i terrify
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4043310 tn?1355912647
Sendin her out to school, public school arent safe with crazy gun men gettin in an shootin all the kids and kids themselves r so cruel wht if she gets bullied nothin I can do or wht if she is the bully!
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Scared of the little one having any serious health issues
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Agreeing with my husband about how to disapline our children.
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Everything...i want him to grow up happy,healthy,safe an LOVED..i dont wanna mess him up an i want him to grow up to be a amazing person. So im just scared in general..lol.
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4456535 tn?1355894638
I say not being there or havin family be there for him/her and sendin him/her to school if i could i would just teach my baby myself but i know that isnt good either. Because yesterday on the news i seen that this 13year teacher was finally caught for molestin his students but is only getting a 4.year penalty i mean wat the h*ll. We think our kids are safe in school.
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Raising the baby on my own
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Tearing...
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