sex issues help please!

[kevonashley]

Ok so I'm 23 weeks pregnant with my first kid, I'm 21 , my problem is that my sex with my Childs father is becoming really rare , it's like from one extreme to another some times he so anxious to have sex and other times he like he's not in the mood for sex or he just won't touch me. This is making me become insecure about my body even tho I've only lost weight n not really gained any since i got pregnant. Any comments or advice on what it could be, how i can fix this or what i should do??

[carloswife]

Lol no problem.Go for it! WE being the pregnant one its easy to think about US and what we need,but we cant forget our men.

[kevonashley]

Lol! Thanks for the feed back i feel a lot better now && I'll try the back rub thing, he's deserves it he's a hard working guy :)

[carloswife]

Sounds like he's got a case of "sympothy symptoms" lol men can experience symptoms throughout our pregnancy same as us except they arent the ones carrying the load of course.My husband gets moody,emotional,cravings,exhaustion and he thaught i was exaggerating when i told him im not being a pain,its just pregnancy lol now he understands.Usually its US that arent in the mood because our hormones are constanly changing.Sometimes im ready to tussle with my husband,other days im like u better put simba back in the lions den,cuz he aint jumpin through no hoops tonight.lol it happens.In this case its your man thats not up for rounds which is normal,it has nothing to do with u so dont feel bad.Ill be 27 weeks on sunday and my sex drive has gone up,while my husband has not been in the mood some days.Have some fourplay,or try something he likes.Worked for me when i wasnt in the mood and my hubby tried that.Youd be surprised,but a back rub goes a long way lol

[CRw88]

Its not you...me and my hubby used to have sex all the time, but since he works two jobs and I went back to work, im not in the mood, he tries to touch me but I fight him off and when im in the mood he fights me off...its weird, I think somethings we have to work on when starting a family...sex must be so you dnt miss in the relationship.