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I knew my babys father was watching porn, but today i actually caught him, any other earlier point in our relationship i wouldnt mind but i do. He said "what am i supose to do" like an idiot,we havent had sex since i got pregnant,and around february i found out i had chlamydia so i got treated and he knows we cant have sex until he gets treated because im not taking the risk of getting it again because of me and most importantly my child.its whatever though i just dont even care anymore,our relationship has turned to **** anyways and the only thing keeping me here is that i have nowhere else to go. (Just venting)
Aww sorry to hear that mama but you are doing the right thing by not having sex with him just keep your head up hun (:
@ssimms thanks girl, and yea i wouks never put my child at risk for his lame ***. Now hes REALLY not getting sex, he can go find it from somebody else for all i care.
Dont let it upset you.. i know everyone has different opinions about porn, but this is how i see it.. id rather my hubby watch porn than cheat on me. sure there are probably plenty of guys who do both but i tell him idc if you watch it just dont hide it from me. again everyone has their reasons but dont let porn ruin your relationship
@kmommy i use to feel the same way about it, but if i were to do that and be runbing my clit to other guys or whatever then he would tottally flip, so no its not ok with me anymore. I could care less what he does it aint gonna be with me anymore.
Mine watched porn too. It upsets me but I can't blame him cause I dont want to have sex cause it is extra sensitive there and is swollen. Ugh. And I don't like when he masturbate sorry tmi but what can I do? He is just being a man, I just feel bad. :d
I'm sorry you ladies have to deal with that :( I have learned that men don't understand where we come from unless we put them through the same situations, @krizmart maybe you should watch porn and do what you said above right in front of him lol ya it will upset him and he can experience how you feel and maybe be an eye opener?
Delaina lmaoo
.... i find your comment so crazy funny because thats EXACTLY what i did after i kept messing with him on purpose and i mad sure it was only a guy on the porno and i even askes him if he wanted to join and watch with me lol i couls tell in his fave how pissed he was he couldnt believe that i was watching it lol.. i see you and i have the same mentality. Haha ("
.... i find your comment so crazy funny because thats EXACTLY what i did after i kept messing with him on purpose and i mad sure it was only a guy on the porno and i even askes him if he wanted to join and watch with me lol i couls tell in his fave how pissed he was he couldnt believe that i was watching it lol.. i see you and i have the same mentality. Haha ("
My bf has been watching porn too.... :( wat i don't get is i give him sex. It makes me feel ugly and fat I'm 24w+3days so i kinda feel like I'm not good enough.. are a lot of men like this? idk wat i should do cuz I've also caught him masterbating while i was asleep.. like why do that wen u can simply just wake me up...:( i guess sometimes its a turn on to wake up to lol but latley ive just been upset about it and like jealous that I'm not "porno material" is that normal?
My boyfriend watches porn too but I never had a problem with it. Specially now that sex isn't something I'm interested in being almost 35 weeks preggo, but even before when our sex life was actually well alive lol it still didn't bother me. The way I see it if there is a night he wants some I'd prefer for him to handle it himself rather then go out looking for it with another woman. I can uderstand there is nights we are fighting, or I'm asleep or simply just not in the mood but he is. Atleast he isn't out there with another female. Lol
I know how you feel heenabean, but still. It boils down to that I would rather my hubby watches porn than cheat on me. I dont understand what he gets out of it but I dont think about it either. I do know he tries to hide it from me which I recently found out it was because he knows Ive been through sexual abuse before and he thought - in his own way - he was protecting me from any unpleasant flashbacks. But I reassured him not to worry about it.
Also I hope you don't in any type of way feel bad because you haven't had sex with him. I completely understand your reasoning. He has noone to blame but himself because he could have gotten treatedd when you did and maybe the lack of sex wouldn't be a problem now. Does he not know the risk of leaving an STD untreated. Its now April, that's not good. Anyway I just wanted to say I hope you're not feeling some type of way about yourself! I would do the same if I was in your situation. Baby is more important then anything else. Good luck and I hope the situation gets better!
Sooo I watch porn and it has no affect on how much I want my man. I want him even more after I see a new trick. But I do watch it because this pregnancy has my hormones sky rocketing and I know he isnt able to give it to me as much as I want it. It has nothing to do with him being inadequate or me preferring the men in a porn. Dont take it personal, humans have needs be glad that he is fulfilling those needs in your home solo rather than on top of another woman.
It just isnt excusable for me any more and for many reasons,to each its own but i dont need my fiance doing that ,and if you knew the situation you would get where im coming from. But thnks ladies for your input ("
Bahahahahaha that's awesome! The way I see it is there are many different ways to cheat, cheating isn't just a physical act it can be emotional and mental... And sitting there stroking your pickle while watching another woman besides your own is a mental way I think it's disrespectful, not gonna lie tho I watched it a few times to try and get me going cuz my sex drive is shot and I felt bad and I didn't even touch myself cuz I thought " I wonder what god is thinking watching me do this" and it made everything awkward and I realized I don't need to watch that **** when I got my sexy *** husband I can think of :) but everyone is different that's just me
Everyone sees things differently. But when I give him that awesome ** because I picked up some new pointers the last thing he going to go around complaining about is cheating. Maybe thats it...you dont feel apart of his fantasy. In kriz case you dont have that option at the moment at the moment, but that could be part of the issue. Idk your whole story.
@delaina thats exactly how i feel hun,its just disrespectful especially when he tries to blame it on me, meanwhile hea the one that hasnt got checked,we couldve been having sex...so im just not hearing the excuse this time around he can kiss my ***. lol
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