Any advice on young moms that had two kids at a young age?

[Aaliyah__2]

Any advice on mom's who had two kids 19, 20, 21 how dis u tell ur mom? Was u living with ur mom when u got pregnant with ur second how long did it take u to tell her and family?

[Aaliyah__2]

I was planning on telling her tomorrow after my appointment but idk now

[Aaliyah__2]

My mom wouldn't b happy she'll b mad if I am she was mad when she thought my sister wanted a kid and my sister is 23 my mom is very judgemental. And the reason y I told my bd mom cause I wasn't planning on keeping the baby and I didn't want to tell my mom for she didn't have to drive me to get an abortion and b a lot of drama but having my bd aunt drive me she lied about everything so me and my bd r keeping it he's happy that I'm pregnant again I can't b happy with this pregnancy because ik how my mom is and she's gonna judge me hard and b disappointed

[Love35888]

I agree with @babyprince. She might be upset other ppl knew b4 she did. Try to tell her as soon as u can!

[babyprince]

Ur mum may be more upset that everyone knew befor her . Be careful . I lived on my own but still when baby was born went back home fir 8 months as i was really poorly n brother stayed in my house . Belive me she may be upset but it won't last long u may be surprised she might be supportive n happy if u are x

[Aaliyah__2]

Thanks I'm still living with my mom trying to find a place I'm 19 and I'll b 12 weeks tomorrow still haven't told my mom anything but ik I'm gonna have to tell her I'm in college too and ik I'm gonna stay in it till I finished I got a lot of help from my bds family they already know I don't wanna live at my bds house with his mom nor his grandma's house so hopefully I can get a place soon in order for me to tell my mom

[babyprince]

My son is 10 now n wouldn't have changed it for the world x

[babyprince]

I was 17 lived alone and she knew befor i even told her she was disappointed but when the baby is here that all goes away enjoy ur pregnancy the shock soon wears off x

[Love35888]

I had my 2nd when I was 17 n I told my mom when I was 6 wks because I was so sick. N she told everyone else. She had no reason to be upset with me because I lived on my own paying my own bills since I was 15. If she was upset she didn't really tell me. Now im 20 with my 3rd baby, but my daddys always happy,  he wants a bunch of grankids. So my dads always been happy for me after I had my 1st. Good luck hun!

[blessedx2]

It took me a little bit to tell her about my first I was 20 and out of her house, she yelled like 5 min then was talking about shopping and baby names next lol. With this one I'm 21 and told her the day I took a test. This one was planned so she knew it was coming. Now she moved away and we rent her house. So my children get to grow up in my childhood home! I love it. Just tell her. Get it over with. With my first I told my sisters first and made them sit with me while I told her so she couldn't kill me lol. It went way better than I thought.

[Yoshii_93]

I told everyone with the second when I had literally just found out think I was between 5-8 weeks

[Yoshii_93]

well I was seventeen still living with them scared to death someone end up telling them the day I had the guts to spill the beans. after I graduated high school I moved out. was in college met my husband we were engaged at the time when I found out I was pregnant with this one the second. got married on mother's day. I just flat old told them as well I'm 21 they were still mad I don't really care I'm still going to finish college this is not going to stop me. I'm grown pay my own bills could care less if they are mad. but I would say let them know better they hear it from u then someone else if u stay with them just try to workk on gettingyour own place of possible. if you are on your own an supporting them that's even better you are doing just fine. they are your parents they love u no matter what

[kennimae]

I flat out told her but hen again ive been married since I was 19 and out of their house. I got pregnant with my first after the wedding and pregnant with number 2 at 21 and now 22 and about to pop any day now.