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so... my husband

My husband expects me to be super close with his family and always want to hangout with them but yet whenever he shows up to one of my family members houses he stays in the car. Or he doesn't want to hangout with my family at all. But, I also went to texas and met his entire family and stayed with them for almost 2 weeks and the didn't even speak a lick of English. And I was miserable there! I'm not wrong for thinking this is unfair right?
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I know exactly what u mean! I have a lot of spanish friend and.i dont mind.going to their houses and spending time with them but i hate stsying for dinner because the rest of the family doesnt know any english and i have to stay silent the entire time and.i can tell they r all talking about me in spanish because they keep saying "americano" and then they ALL loOK at me nd.start laughing.its the most uncomfortable experience even in the past wheb ive had spanish bfs its hard for me.to get close to their family so.its not just u!
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9634886 tn?1405819605
this sounds just like my bf. lol like exactly like him.
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I have mentioned it that's the thing. He said "I just don't have anything in common with them" like really? Cause I had soooo much in common with people who didn't even speak the same language as me. I do the same thing but he gets extremely mad and then we end up arguing. Its so annoying. -_-
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9961264 tn?1410873329
No my bf is the same way. Its annoying.. i would mention it too him and if he gets mad just do the same thing with his family and he will see why you find it, not only rude but stupid. You guys should be equally involved in each others families.
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