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Just wondering how many step mommies are out therr? Im pregnant with my first but i have 2 step sons. And alot of baby mama drama. Lol. How u cope with everything? Sometimes i just want to beat the crap outta them. Then i just love em and wanna have all the time. Its stressful. These kids are soo disrespectful and dont listen to ANYTHING! SO WHO ELSE IS WITH ME?
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I have a 6 year old step son.  He is the cutest and sweetest thing.  It's unfortunate because we live in a different state from him. His mother is worthless. She refuses to let him come visit.  However, she doesn't even take care of him... Her parents do.  Yet my husbands child support goes to her and her husband (which is used for drugs I'm sure).  He is currently talking to lawyer trying to get custody.  So frustrating!
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4562329 tn?1363818660
I love my step daughter hate her mom she doesnt know how to be a mom. She has this girl going to school with to small clothes. I used to do her until she keep coming over two weeks with the same hairstyle never washing her hair straight nasty. Then she told her daughter i love the way your dads wife does your hair. That because she didnt want to do it. Just a lazy female but she stay wanting child support for her and her girlfriend and the girlfriend kids. She doesnt ever spend the money on their daughter but anytime the girlfriend or the girlfriend kids need something she jumps to go get it. She not even told their daughter that she is GAY. I hate see that little girl hurt.
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I have a 14 yr old stepdaughter and i love her to death. She cnt wait for her lil bro to get here! I dnt think there will ever b no baby mama drama. It ***** but it happens. All i know is i love my stepdaughter and she loves me. That's all that matters to me :)
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4983320 tn?1378402268
I have a 4 year old stepdaughter but my husband has had full custody of her since before she was two. Her mom went to prison shortly after she lost custody so I don't really have any baby mama drama. Thank goodness because this woman is a nut! I'm the only mommy my stepdaughter knows, but I wouldn't want it any other way. I love her to pieces.!
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sounds a lot like mine. I have two children from a previous marriage an my husband has 4 and we have one together plus 10 weeks prego. There mom is EVIL we have been together for 3 years an it has been non stop since day 1 an now his kids are treating me like there mother do , they lie , conive, back talk, curse, just about everything an my husband isn't strict at all so idk.... I've been called a *****, they wished I leave, they call my kids names wich are 2, 7 an 5. So I'm to tge point of either I pik my kids or him an his. It's sad. BTW his kids are 13, 10, 8 an 6. I am 25 now. So I was pretty young to take on such a big job but I love my husband so much.
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Me and my fiance our expecting our second child. Our first is a 2 year old boy. He has a son from a previous reltionship and he's 5. His bio mom is just horrible. And his son just has me at the point where everytime he's over I wanna rip my hair out. He is so mean too my son for no reason. My son is so in love with him, always wants to play and compy his big brother and his son is just so mean. The last time he was over he punched my son in the eye. He said he did it cuz he felt like it. Then when my son was trying to talk to him about his toy, he grabed his throat and tried to choak him. I'm sick of it. I'm at the point where I feel like my fiance needs to choose which is horrible. But I cannot let my son keep getting abused by his
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2028793 tn?1358874905
Well I have 2 boys from a previous relationship and my husband has 2 girls from a previous relationship, so we are both step parents lol what's hard right now is me dealing with my step daughters mother who put my husband in prison based on a lie and now she don't want nothing to do with her girls so I have OUR 4 children all the time and I'm 34+3 weeks pregnant with mine and my husbands first baby together! Its hard at times but I get help from my mom and mother in law! My husband has been gone since I was 3 weeks pregnant and will hopefully be home at the end of April just before baby arrives!
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I hate my boy friends baby mama!! So much drama!!
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I'm a step mom too I'm 21w+5 And i deal wot a lot of baby mamma drama as well.. sometimes its hard to cope with but i love my fiance and his son. So i just ignore it and ccaarry on that's the hard part about being a step mom...
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4371309 tn?1357956329
I am 21yrs old, my husband is 39yrs old and had a 2 step kids they were 13yrs old boy and 7yrs old girl. I cant say anything bad about them coz their mom raise them well. I always come to their house and pick the kids up. They were a good Kids they respect me and listen to me and also accept the baby that I will be having as baby their sibling.

I have a step mom too. ShE's 40yrs old and my dad 64yrs old they gave us a 1bro and 1sis . I have a prob with my step mom sometimes coz everything I do, she will say something about it.

I guess ur situation is those 2boys needs to learned how to accept u and their mom also. It probably coz of the mom. If their mom taught them how to respect people and listen to people they will do it to u but they didnt.  
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I'm a stepmom! Im 24 and my husband is 34. He has 3 kids from his first marriage. They are 14, 11 and 7. Then we have a 2 yr old together and one on the way. I'm not going to lie and say it is always easy but I love them and my husband is worth it. They r great with my son. I don't think my hubby would ever let them be disrespectful to me. Sure we have had misunderstandings before but we talk it out
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We live the same life ! I'm 29+6 with a step son and step daughter and I could rip my hair out, I can't stand kids right now, they are lazy and do everything half assed and they discovered lying so now they lie about everything, they backtalk, I just lock myself in my bedroom when they are over because I want to avoid getting mad and stressing the baby out and I don't want to lose my temper so I tell my husband everything they do so he can take care of it, I wish he'd be more strict tho
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Well im pregnant 17 yrs old i have a step ma who is 21 my dad is 43 thier happy and i love my step ma my sister who is 18 hates her she wanted her real parents totether her and my real mom r causing alot of drama n problems she finally moved out but still cause drama my step ma just lets gods grace handle it all ill do that and the stress comes such better and oh ya she was pregnant not to long ago dealing with it dont stress she lost the first one at 6 months just pray thats my advice :) but she now gav me a lil bro hell b 2 yrs in june and were a happy family even with all that drama we put it in  gods hands :)
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